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As a success-blogger, I normally have a great deal of clarity about what I need to be working on. I’m also really driven by a sense of purpose in helping others get unstuck and make an impact in their lives. There aren’t many times that I find myself at a loss for what to do next.
Nonetheless, I recently hit a dry spell. I felt entirely stuck and a little burnt out. It felt like I was in a pit, emotionally unempowered and unable to move forward. Due to this, I decided to sit down and write out a list of ways that I could get myself moving and build up some momentum again. (more…)
I suck at spreadsheets.
I suck at maths because numbers do my head in.
I suck at attending meetings because I just want action.
You will suck at your first blog post.
You will suck at your first startup, and the one after that, and so on.
You will suck at giving your first speech.
None of us are 100% motivated all the time.
None of us get anything right the first time – unless it’s a fluke.
We all have nightmares of our failures.
We all secretly want to be perfect – even me.
It’s time to embrace the suck.
A lot about life F*cking sucks hard.
My #EmbraceTheSuck story (thanks Sina Fak for the idea) was failing at high school and dropping out. After a break, I went back and finished high school, and the only subjects I excelled at were music and English.
Even though the headmaster told me I’d always be a no good, punk a$$, drop out, I proved him wrong.
I used my expertise in English to become a blogger and that’s why I’m writing these words to you right now.
I failed in the short-term, but by persevering at school, it eventually led me to right now. I could have done nothing and become a bum. I could have listened to my headmaster and agreed with him.
I knew that I was destined to do something big and I believe the movement I’m creating right now is part of my crazy goal to change the world.
All of us can succeed when we embrace the suck and persevere.
“We can listen to our critics or we can lift the middle finger at them and keep going”
Making it through the suck made me smarter, more courageous and it helped me build a newfound resilience.
How do we embrace the suck?
1. Be prepared to fail.
2. Look like an idiot.
3. Be willing to start at the bottom
5. Challenge the critics
When everything sucks, get back up.
Have a second go even if there’s no reason too.
Back yourself and believe you can push through the suck.
Embrace the suck is a call to action.
It’s about being prepared to eat sh*t because the upside makes it worth it. It’s about doing what so many are not prepared to do because you believe in yourself.
It’s about taking action and executing instead of being a daydreamer and being stuck in a foreplay of ideas, dreams, goals that never happen.
Starting at the bottom and sucking harder is how you get to the top.
Once you arrive at the top, make sure you help other people who are embracing the suck.
Let’s all commit to doing more things that suck and being okay with it. Let’s challenge each other to be courageous.
If I can go from being a high school dropout to making something of myself, then why the heck can’t you?
Embrace the suck because that’s what the people you idolize and anyone you’ve ever looked up to did.
Embracing the suck is part of life.
“Hello, adversity. Come at me!”
One day you’ll look back on all the sucky moments and be proud.
That’s the cherry on top of the cake right there.
That is all the motivation you need to embrace the suck.
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That’s the question I want you to ponder right now.
What if taking a selfie only made the world ignore you?
What if life is not all about you?
What if no one cares who you took a photo with?
And finally, how did we ever live without selfies before the front-facing camera got invented?
Instead of taking a selfie do this:
Try focusing on other people.
Try not to document every moment.
Try to think about life before selfies.
We all take selfies because that’s what we were told to do.
And that’s exactly why we need to question this habitual flaw that we’re now indulging in.
I have A/B tested selfies vs. no selfies.
The result? When I took photos of cool stuff like mountains in Japan and shared a profound thought, people liked that more than a selfie with my overly large head in it. I’ve done this test multiple times over the last few years.
The result is always the same. People are over you and your selfies.
It’s not about “I” it’s about “We.”
Sounds cliché, and that’s because most brilliant advice is.
Selfies have deluded us into thinking that life is about us and our big audacious goals. Where life will change for you is when you focus on the “We.”
Everything I write is for the audience I want to inspire. It’s not to show off or to share dumb selfies of me in a weak attempt to appear superior.
Selfies cause your followers to compare themselves to you.
And that’s not fair. If each of us tried to be the same, then society would be pretty dull.
“We don’t need a selfie to teach us how to copy each other and be jealous little so-and-sos who want to win a beauty pagan of nothingness”
You’re so much better than a selfie.
I believe you care about your followers so let’s stop drowning them in selfies. Selfies are proving nothing to no one. Selfies stop you from standing out in the crowd and inspiring others.
The time you spend “selfieing” could be used for…..
Enjoying this current moment and the breath you have in your lungs. One day that breath is going to stop and all that time selfieing won’t matter. You’re literally using up magical moments trying to take a hundred selfies that you filter and post, hoping for perfection.
Perfection is ugly.
“Right now, is the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen if you’ll only stop selfieing and notice it”
Life before selfies….
Life was much the same. The selfie didn’t put us on Cloud 9 with a bunch of our fantasies and an unlimited amount of cash being shot up into the sky via an air cannon.
Life before selfies was fun.
We ate our food instead of looking at it with our phones and letting it get cold.
We had phenomenal conversations with our friends instead of taking endless, mindless selfies.
Life before selfies was not about one’s self.
You took photos of other people. Often, you took two photos max instead of fifty in a row.
I’d like you to imagine a life without selfies.
What does the selfie really mean to you and can you live without it?