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Why Humility Is the Real Superpower in Leadership

Humble leadership doesn’t mean being passive or unsure of yourself.

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In today’s fast-paced, high-stakes business world, especially in industries like construction and finance, leadership is often mistaken for control, authority, or having all the answers. But the leaders who last and leave the deepest impact tend to operate from a very different place: humility.

I Didn’t See Myself as a Leader… Until One Moment Changed Everything

Early in my career, I wasn’t leading a team. I didn’t have a title. No one reported to me. But that changed during one of the most intense seasons of my professional life.

Our company was being acquired. Anyone who’s been through a merger or acquisition knows the pressure: tight deadlines, high tension, and every report, number, and forecast becomes critical overnight.

I was working on the finance and accounting team, and the due diligence demands were relentless. Budgets, forecasts, financial reports, and supporting documents had to be delivered fast, accurately, and under immense scrutiny.

I watched my supervisor, usually composed and efficient, begin to crack under the weight of it all. And instead of staying in my lane and just completing my basic tasks, I leaned in.

I started asking questions like:

  • “What tasks can I take off your plate right now?”

  • “Where are the bottlenecks I can help resolve?”

  • “If you had another set of hands, where would you put them?”

To my surprise, he began delegating real tasks, not just busywork. Some of them were beyond my current skill set, but I figured it out. I stayed late. I asked questions. I pushed through the discomfort.

Eventually, I was working directly with our CFO. I hit every deadline. I delivered every request. And I did it not for recognition, but because I saw a need and chose to fill it.

That experience changed everything. It wasn’t just about stepping up, it was about showing up with humility, without ego or agenda. That was the moment leadership found me.

What Humble Leadership Really Looks Like

Humble leadership doesn’t mean being passive or unsure of yourself. It’s not about thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less. Here’s what that looks like in action:

  • Listening more than you speak

  • Asking questions before giving orders

  • Owning your mistakes without excuses

  • Uplifting your team instead of seeking praise

  • Recognizing your strengths without needing applause

In environments like construction or high-pressure finance, humility is often seen as weakness. But in truth, it’s the cornerstone of trust, and trust is everything when the stakes are high.

Why Humility Outperforms Ego in High-Stress Roles

High-pressure roles don’t just test your technical skills, they test your character. And while ego crumbles under stress, humility steadies the ship.

  • It builds loyalty. People want to work with leaders who see and value them. When you’re willing to roll up your sleeves, your team doesn’t just respect you, they commit to you.

  • It creates opportunity. Humble leaders create room for others to grow, and in doing so, get pulled upward themselves.

  • It fosters resilience. Without ego, feedback doesn’t bruise you. It builds you. You adapt faster, learn deeper, and bounce back stronger.

The Takeaway: Serve First, and Leadership Will Follow

You don’t need a title to lead. And you don’t need to be the loudest voice in the room. The most impactful leaders I know are the ones who serve first and let their influence speak for itself.

So ask yourself:

  • Where can I lead with humility today?

  • Who around me is struggling quietly, and how can I support them?

  • Where am I holding back because I’m waiting for permission?

  • Who can I elevate this week, even in a small way?

You may not make headlines for it, but you will make an impact.

Because when you lead to serve, people don’t follow out of obligation. They follow because they trust you. And that’s the kind of leadership that lasts.

Mark Chapman is a seasoned financial executive and the President & CEO of Reign Financial Strategies. With over a decade of experience in financial accounting, project accounting, and strategic leadership, he is known for blending strategic thinking with servant leadership. Outside of work, he’s passionate about building strong teams, personal growth, helping others step into their potential, and most importantly, his family! Connect with him on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/chapmanmb.

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These 11 Habits Will Make You More Productive, Successful, and Confident

Boost your focus, confidence, and results with 11 powerful habits successful people use every day.

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Successful people love to help beginners. They have an incredible work ethic and rarely complain. As a result, others naturally look up to them and want to follow in their footsteps.

But here’s the truth: there’s no success without sacrifice. You’ll need to give up comfort, excuses, and sometimes even social approval to accomplish your goals.

Value comes from solving problems, and these 11 powerful tips will help you become more productive, successful, and confident, starting today.

1. Take Short Breaks After Finishing a Task

Psychology shows it’s important to reward positive behaviour.

After completing a big task or finishing a book, take five minutes to walk, stretch, or simply breathe. This quick reset helps your brain recharge and strengthens focus.

Many great writers swear by morning walks, solitude, and reflection can unlock creativity.

But if you refuse to take breaks, don’t be surprised when burnout hits. Your brain needs recovery time just as much as your body does.

2. Schedule Your Most Important Tasks First

Multitasking kills productivity. If you want to get more done, try time blocking, a method where you dedicate set periods for specific tasks.

Productivity expert Caitlin Hughes explains, “Time blocking involves scheduling blocks of time for your tasks throughout the day.”

For example, if you’re a writer:

  • Research your topic at night.

  • Write your first draft in the morning (don’t worry if it’s rough).

  • Edit in the afternoon, great writing comes from rewriting.

You can’t buy more time. Use it intentionally and without regret.

3. Eliminate Distractions from Your Workspace

Focus is the foundation of success.

According to Inc. Magazine, it takes an average of 23 minutes to recover from a distraction. That’s nearly half an hour of lost productivity every time you check your phone.

Put your phone away. Close unnecessary tabs. And yes, limit your Netflix binges.

Meeting deadlines consistently is one of the fastest ways to stand out and earn respect.

4. Take Full Responsibility for Your Life

Entrepreneur Derek Sivers once said, “Everything is my fault.”

This mindset doesn’t mean self-blame; it means self-ownership. Stop pointing fingers, making excuses, or waiting for others to change.

If your habits (like smoking or drinking too much) hold you back, it’s time to make better choices. Your friends can’t live your dreams for you; only you can.

5. Invest an Hour a Day in Learning New Skills

Knowledge compounds over time.

Whether you read books, take online courses, or practise a craft, consistent learning gives you a competitive edge.

I used to struggle with academic writing, but I improved by studying the work of great authors and applying what I learned.

Your past doesn’t define you; your actions do. Every new skill adds another tool to your arsenal and makes you more unstoppable.

6. Develop a Growth Mindset

Psychologist Dr. Carol Dweck introduced the concept of fixed vs. growth mindset.

  • A fixed mindset believes success is based on natural talent.

  • A growth mindset believes success comes from effort and learning.

Choose the growth mindset. Embrace challenges. See failures as feedback. In today’s fast-moving digital world, adaptability is your biggest advantage.

7. Learn Marketing to Reach People Who Need You

I once believed marketing was manipulative, until I realised it’s about helping people solve problems.

If your work provides genuine value, marketing is how you let others know it exists. Even Apple spends billions on it.

Don’t be ashamed to promote your skills or business. Without visibility, your ideas will never reach the people who need them most.

Creative professionals who understand marketing and sales have an unfair advantage.

8. Ask Your Mentor the Right Questions

Good mentors can fast-track your growth.

While mentorship often costs money, it’s one of the best investments you can make. Great mentors don’t care about titles; they care about your progress.

If you don’t have access to a mentor yet, books are your silent mentors. Read the best in your field, take notes, and apply what resonates.

9. Build Confidence Through Action, Not Affirmations

Author Ryan Holiday once said, “I don’t believe in myself. I have evidence.”

Confidence doesn’t come from shouting affirmations into the mirror; it comes from proof. Doing hard things, keeping promises to yourself, and following through.

When you consistently take action, your brain gathers evidence that you can handle whatever comes next. That’s real confidence, grounded, earned, and unshakable.

10. Focus on Your Strengths

Your strengths reveal where your greatest impact lies.

If people compliment you on something often, it’s a clue. Lean into it.

A former professor once told me I was creative, and that simple comment gave me the confidence to go all in. I studied creativity, applied it daily, and turned it into my career advantage.

Double down on your strengths. That’s how you build momentum and mastery.

11. Identify and Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs

Your beliefs shape your reality.

For years, I believed I couldn’t be a great writer because of my chronic tinnitus and astigmatism, sensory challenges that made concentration difficult. But over time, I realised those struggles made me more disciplined, observant, and empathetic.

Your limitations can become your greatest motivators if you let them.

Avoid shortcuts. Growth takes time, but it’s always worth it.

Final Thoughts

Becoming productive, successful, and confident isn’t about working harder than everyone else. It’s about working smarter, consistently, and intentionally.

You don’t need to overhaul your life overnight. Start small: take a break after your next task, schedule your priorities, or spend one hour learning something new.

Every habit you change compounds into long-term success. Remember, true change comes from practising new behaviours.

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