Success Advice
Turning Your Stumble into Success: The “Flawportunity” Formula
When circumstances seem pitted against you, you can either laugh or cry
When circumstances seem pitted against you, you can either laugh or cry. Here’s how I learned that laughing can really pay off.
Finding Gold in the Garbage
I was shooting a global tech giant’s launch video to introduce a new, cutting-edge wireless router. The router had a cool design, sleek packaging, and the client’s product developer even looked stylish and had an engaging voice. We had all the elements to make a catchy video. Or so we thought.
One thing we hadn’t accounted for was the router’s super-long, tongue-twisting, technical name. During the video shoot, the product guy kept stumbling over the name of his device. He got more and more frustrated as he bungled the name, slapped his forehead, then laughed at his own futility.
He finally, painfully, enunciated the full name of router, and gamely pushed through the rest of his dialogue. I groaned to myself at how awkward the final video would look.
Over the next few days, I nervously edited what was designed to be a straightforward, two-minute video. There was a lot of money invested in this launch. My stomach sank as I reviewed what was a professional but, to be honest, boring promo piece.
Needing a laugh, I watched the outtakes of the guy struggling mightily with the name. Now THIS was fun to watch. And then it hit me. It would probably be fun for others to watch, too.
I quickly cut together a series of his frustrated, then tortured, takes on the router name. His good-natured laughter at his struggles gave a lightness to it. At the end, a link to the full product video read, “Watch Martin get it right.” This extra little 20-second video was not part of the client project, but I figured we owed it to them.
Their client loved it (whew) and gave us the green light to promote it via social media. It earned great exposure overnight on major tech industry news sites, generating much greater traffic then we could ever promise with the original video.
I fondly remember that little production, and how leaning into the humor and relatability of the situation created some magic. Since then, I always appreciate seeing a company’s creative self-deprecation turn a sour situation sweet.
Here’s one of my favorite examples, from the restaurant industry:
A FCK-ing Creative Response
In 2017, KFC tried to innovate with its delivery logistics in the UK and found a new vendor. Sadly, the partnership flailed. By early 2018, most of the KFCs were running out of chicken, and customers were angry. The chain had to close 900 restaurants – a majority of its locations across the UK. On one day alone, 53,000 social media posts mentioned KFC running out of chicken, using #KFCCrisis hashtags and others.
KFC’s response? It tossed the usual executive press release and declined to play the blame game. Instead, it embraced the failure with a serving of bold humor.
KFC ran a full-page print ad in widely-viewed newspapers, to reach a broad swath of its customers. The ad simply showed an empty KFC chicken bucket, with a big “FCK” printed on it instead of “KFC”. Under the image it read: “We’re sorry. A chicken restaurant without any chicken. It’s not ideal. It’s been a hell of a week, but we’re making progress, and every day more and more fresh chicken is being delivered to our restaurants.”
The upshot: KFC’s funny and humble response generated more than 700 press and broadcast mentions, delivering a total audience of roughly 800 million globally. 200 million-plus social media users were also exposed to the indelible “FCK” image.
In a three-month span, the single print ad had leapt across media boundaries to earn a reach surpassing one billion. Besides increased brand exposure, consumer sentiment toward KFC actually rose following KFC’s gutsy response, per consumer insights provider YouGov.
If there’s a bottom line here, it’s that some market conditions you might consider a dead end may actually help you stand out and advance.
The “Flawportunity” Formula
There’s a method to the messaging if you want to get it right.
STEP 1: Identify a clear, critical weakness that might also be useful in telling your story – this is your flawportunity. (I’ve seen this term used in fictional character development and I find it also fits in the business world.)
You flawportunity should be:
- Well-known enough that hiding it is pointless
- Difficult/impossible to fix quickly (otherwise, just fix it!)
- Not connected to safety, ethics, or core functionality
- Relatable – or even better, amusing – to your audience
- Ideally, tied to something unique about your brand
STEP 2: Reframe the weakness.
Turn your criticism into:
- A mark of authenticity (“Yes, we’re expensive because we use real ingredients.”)
- A badge of honor (“It is difficult. That’s what makes us special.”)
- A shared joke (“Our board game is addictive. Sorry about your late nights.”)
- A powerful differentiator (“We’re probably not for everyone. Cool.”)
STEP 3: Amplification.
Don’t dance around your flaws; showcase them creatively:
- Use specific numbers (“Our rooms are 25% smaller and 50% cheaper”)
- Create memorable visuals (a giant one-star review billboard)
- Develop catchphrases (“Slow coffee for slow mornings”)
- Give critics a platform to vent, commiserate, and laugh – but control the narrative
Measuring Impact
Here are some useful metrics to track for your bold move:
- Sentiment shift in social mentions
- Sales patterns during/after campaign
- Media coverage tone
- Customer feedback themes
- Employee morale
- Community engagement levels
Boldness, with Boundaries
Of course, with any bold move, you must navigate risk. Here are some campaign guidelines to help you avoid potential PR minefields:
- Authenticity is non-negotiable
- Humor must punch up, never down
- Keep core brand values intact
- Draw clear lines of decorum you won’t cross
- Maintain quality while embracing flaws
- Carefully monitor all channels of potential feedback, and engage quickly and consistently
- Be ready to pull back if: criticism evolves from product to ethics, employees grow uncomfortable with messaging, or consumer sentiment or media coverage turns increasingly negative
As you can see, the best response to criticism isn’t always defense; it can be creative ownership that turns critics into community. You’re not trashing your core value proposition, you’re simply showing the human, humorous side of your brand. When done right, your biggest weakness highlights your authentic strength.
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9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World
Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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