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The Courage to Break Free: Finding Purpose Beyond the Paycheck

Sold all my stuff and headed south. Again. Car? Gone. Furniture? Gone. Storage unit? Nope.

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Sold all my stuff and headed south. Again. Car? Gone. Furniture? Gone. Storage unit? Nope. I’m down to what fits in one suitcase (plus a closet in my mom’s house—shoutout moms).

A Quick Rant on Depreciation

When is purchasing a liability ever a good decision? I paid someone $6,000 to take my car off my hands—that’s right, I paid them.

They drove off with a new car and six bands, presumably bumping ‘Pac, as I miserably looked on and began rethinking all life choices.

Lesson learned: don’t buy shit that depreciates. Cars, boats, bikes, furniture—they tether you to a lifestyle you might not even want. [Unless you’re actually rich as shit—we’ll return to this later…]

And that’s the point, isn’t it? The more things you own, the more they own you.

*Dave Ramsey awakens from wet dream*

Fleeing the US

Another flight to South America, another one-way ticket cashed in. The outdoor cat knows his way back to the food bowl at home—but there’s always a chance you don’t see him again.

I’ve got no tickets, plans, or ideas of returning.

The Morningly Shit: Why I Left

Picture this: sitting at your desk, watching the clock, waiting for that morningly (yep, it’s a word, at least back in the 1800s) shit break just to scroll social media in peace.

Back at the desk, tolerating your strung out mid-life-crisis boss pinging you on Teams about spreadsheets you don’t care about, expending the lions share of your life’s energy to push agendas you don’t align with—I’m good.

Meanwhile, somewhere in history, one of your ancestors was unleashing spears on the Great Plains’ bison population.

[I’m not Native American so that is factually incorrect.]

We’ve traded survival instincts for corporate ones. I felt like a lion in a cage—stuck, defanged, and pacing (fuck it, let’s say neutered too for good measure), wondering if there’s more to life than this cycle of comfort and consumption.

Enter: Operation Freedom©

Nope, the US military isn’t about to rain down on a Middle Eastern country (it is)—this is a recalibration. Financial freedom isn’t just about having money. It’s about living on your terms.

I’d rather go broke trying to build something meaningful, and start from zero like a college kid, than sit in the cushy cell (I mean cubicle) as I rot away mentally and spiritually.

The goal is independence—not just from a job, but from the mental chains that keep us locked into cycles of mindless consumption, escapism, and settling for mediocrity.

The Human Zoo

Humans are animals. We like to differentiate ourselves from ‘animals’, but we aren’t so different. Take a dog bred to herd sheep all day and lock it in a tiny apartment, and watch your deposit disappear.

Put a bird in a cage and watch it pluck its own feathers out. Put a cat indoors, and it sharpens its claws on the sofa not to fuck with you (maybe sort of), but because there is no tree bark. I ain’t a PETA guy, but damn, I know I wouldn’t want to be a zoo animal.

I’m tryna have a mf territory.

Yet that’s exactly what we are.

No sense of adventure, exploration, awe, curiosity, purpose, passion, exhilaration, autonomy, connection, community—and as a result, numbed by social media, alcohol, porn, food, and Netflix.

Not sure why fam but I’ve actually been anxious for 7 years

Redefining Wealth: Financial Freedom

We become shackled to the bloated lifestyle we’ve created in our years of salary-earning. Who else is going to pay me six figures and afford me Italy trips and a Raptor in exchange for adding fuck all in value?

Lifestyle downgrades are hard to make. Get used to living in a $3000/month apartment, and the $1200 spot looks like poverty. It ain’t happening. The Benz leather makes the Civic cloth hurt to sit on. Good luck trading it in.

But can your Benz crawl up a mountain, store a hoarder’s amount of shit, and provide 150 years of reliability?

The Mindset Shift

The other day, my mom was perplexed as to how I was understanding the large Cuban man’s lightning fast Spanish. Half of the words were slang as he entirely omitted a quarter of the alphabet. (My Latinos will understand the difficulty here).

It’s the same way I learned countless skills like martial arts, motorcycling, and dance:

  1. Decide I want it.
  2. Learn how to learn.
  3. Copy people who’ve already done it.
  4. Block out the noise from people who haven’t.

So why couldn’t this approach be applied to generating wealth?

Negative Money Beliefs

Money’s tricky. Unlike learning a language, it comes with a lot of baggage—societal beliefs, family expectations, and our own limiting ideas about what we “deserve.” Ever notice how you seem to sabotage yourself whenever you start earning more than you think you’re worth? That’s your internal thermostat pulling you back to its set point.

To break out, you have to rewrite those stories. Success doesn’t make you greedy or bad—it gives you the freedom to live authentically and contribute to the world on your terms. And once truly successful, you can truly afford the AMG and the Camelback sofa, without being shackled to them.

The Seven Baby Mamas

I know I’m privileged and have unique circumstances. I could have seven baby mamas and two mortgages, or still be clawing to regain the high of college and getting black out at the watering holes of my hometown (and do trust, I did my time—no judgement).

But is it really that unique? There’s an entire generation of young, single, childless professionals sitting on the same resources and resentments.

Not that having a kid or house prevents one from pursuing their dreams—that is self-limiting beliefs at play. But it does make it harder. (Borrowed from Scott Galloway’s No Mercy / No Malice.)

So, the question isn’t whether I’m crazy for walking away from a “good” job. The question is whether you’re crazy for staying in one.

Final Thoughts

Is it scary? Yes. Just like this turbulence I’m currently experiencing suspended 35,000 ft above the Gulf of Mexico.

But it’s worth it. I challenge you to ponder and perhaps journal on these questions for a moment:

  • Do you feel caged? If so, what’s the cage (constraints, responsibilities, bosses, negative mindsets, friends, vices, monthly payments, etc.)?
  • Are you fulfilled and in alignment with your purpose in your career? This requires clearly defining your purpose. If yes, you’re good, see you later. If not…
  • What is your Operation Freedom© plan?
  • What’s something in your life you’re tolerating that you know is holding you back?

Thanks for reading.

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11 Mark Manson Lessons That’ll Redefine Success in the Digital Age

Success in the digital age isn’t about hacks, it’s about the raw, real lessons Mark Manson actually lives by.

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The Secret Daily Routines Behind History’s Most Brilliant Thinkers

Uncover the daily rituals and hidden habits that powered history’s most brilliant minds to success.

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Why Daily Rituals Matter

Every great achiever has one thing in common: discipline. Behind the novels, inventions, discoveries, and masterpieces are small, consistent habits repeated daily. (more…)

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How to Turn a Simple Link-in-Bio Into a Powerful Brand Hub

Transform your forgotten bio link into a high-impact gateway that fuels engagement, clicks, and conversions across every social platform.

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These 11 Habits Will Make You More Productive, Successful, and Confident

Boost your focus, confidence, and results with 11 powerful habits successful people use every day.

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Successful people love to help beginners. They have an incredible work ethic and rarely complain. As a result, others naturally look up to them and want to follow in their footsteps.

But here’s the truth: there’s no success without sacrifice. You’ll need to give up comfort, excuses, and sometimes even social approval to accomplish your goals.

Value comes from solving problems, and these 11 powerful tips will help you become more productive, successful, and confident, starting today.

1. Take Short Breaks After Finishing a Task

Psychology shows it’s important to reward positive behaviour.

After completing a big task or finishing a book, take five minutes to walk, stretch, or simply breathe. This quick reset helps your brain recharge and strengthens focus.

Many great writers swear by morning walks, solitude, and reflection can unlock creativity.

But if you refuse to take breaks, don’t be surprised when burnout hits. Your brain needs recovery time just as much as your body does.

2. Schedule Your Most Important Tasks First

Multitasking kills productivity. If you want to get more done, try time blocking, a method where you dedicate set periods for specific tasks.

Productivity expert Caitlin Hughes explains, “Time blocking involves scheduling blocks of time for your tasks throughout the day.”

For example, if you’re a writer:

  • Research your topic at night.

  • Write your first draft in the morning (don’t worry if it’s rough).

  • Edit in the afternoon, great writing comes from rewriting.

You can’t buy more time. Use it intentionally and without regret.

3. Eliminate Distractions from Your Workspace

Focus is the foundation of success.

According to Inc. Magazine, it takes an average of 23 minutes to recover from a distraction. That’s nearly half an hour of lost productivity every time you check your phone.

Put your phone away. Close unnecessary tabs. And yes, limit your Netflix binges.

Meeting deadlines consistently is one of the fastest ways to stand out and earn respect.

4. Take Full Responsibility for Your Life

Entrepreneur Derek Sivers once said, “Everything is my fault.”

This mindset doesn’t mean self-blame; it means self-ownership. Stop pointing fingers, making excuses, or waiting for others to change.

If your habits (like smoking or drinking too much) hold you back, it’s time to make better choices. Your friends can’t live your dreams for you; only you can.

5. Invest an Hour a Day in Learning New Skills

Knowledge compounds over time.

Whether you read books, take online courses, or practise a craft, consistent learning gives you a competitive edge.

I used to struggle with academic writing, but I improved by studying the work of great authors and applying what I learned.

Your past doesn’t define you; your actions do. Every new skill adds another tool to your arsenal and makes you more unstoppable.

6. Develop a Growth Mindset

Psychologist Dr. Carol Dweck introduced the concept of fixed vs. growth mindset.

  • A fixed mindset believes success is based on natural talent.

  • A growth mindset believes success comes from effort and learning.

Choose the growth mindset. Embrace challenges. See failures as feedback. In today’s fast-moving digital world, adaptability is your biggest advantage.

7. Learn Marketing to Reach People Who Need You

I once believed marketing was manipulative, until I realised it’s about helping people solve problems.

If your work provides genuine value, marketing is how you let others know it exists. Even Apple spends billions on it.

Don’t be ashamed to promote your skills or business. Without visibility, your ideas will never reach the people who need them most.

Creative professionals who understand marketing and sales have an unfair advantage.

8. Ask Your Mentor the Right Questions

Good mentors can fast-track your growth.

While mentorship often costs money, it’s one of the best investments you can make. Great mentors don’t care about titles; they care about your progress.

If you don’t have access to a mentor yet, books are your silent mentors. Read the best in your field, take notes, and apply what resonates.

9. Build Confidence Through Action, Not Affirmations

Author Ryan Holiday once said, “I don’t believe in myself. I have evidence.”

Confidence doesn’t come from shouting affirmations into the mirror; it comes from proof. Doing hard things, keeping promises to yourself, and following through.

When you consistently take action, your brain gathers evidence that you can handle whatever comes next. That’s real confidence, grounded, earned, and unshakable.

10. Focus on Your Strengths

Your strengths reveal where your greatest impact lies.

If people compliment you on something often, it’s a clue. Lean into it.

A former professor once told me I was creative, and that simple comment gave me the confidence to go all in. I studied creativity, applied it daily, and turned it into my career advantage.

Double down on your strengths. That’s how you build momentum and mastery.

11. Identify and Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs

Your beliefs shape your reality.

For years, I believed I couldn’t be a great writer because of my chronic tinnitus and astigmatism, sensory challenges that made concentration difficult. But over time, I realised those struggles made me more disciplined, observant, and empathetic.

Your limitations can become your greatest motivators if you let them.

Avoid shortcuts. Growth takes time, but it’s always worth it.

Final Thoughts

Becoming productive, successful, and confident isn’t about working harder than everyone else. It’s about working smarter, consistently, and intentionally.

You don’t need to overhaul your life overnight. Start small: take a break after your next task, schedule your priorities, or spend one hour learning something new.

Every habit you change compounds into long-term success. Remember, true change comes from practising new behaviours.

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