Success Advice
7 Super Powers of Highly Successful, Conscious People
The more I work in the field of personal development, the more I become aware of human potential in all its glory. I am frequently touched by people with incredible challenges who achieve far more than we would imagine might be possible for them.
Others with everything going on, give up at the first sign of adversity. What I observe in those I most admire as incredibly successful, is a desire to be fully self-aware, to perpetuate consciousness in themselves and others and a willingness to work with energy to create in ways that go beyond old paradigms of positive thinking and powerful habits, to create something entirely different and far greater.
I have identified seven super powers that these maestros of success, energy and self-mastery have in common:
1. Not allowing negative thoughts to lower their energy
Successful individuals know the power of letting that one negative thought sneak in. Science has identified that a thought held for 17 seconds is joined by similar thoughts. A train of thought pursued for 68 seconds gains in power and momentum considerably.
That’s not to say they never have a negative moment, experience challenges or become uncomfortable, they are just quick to realize it and know how to switch back to a powerful state.
TIP: You have a 17 second window of opportunity to change a negative thought, before it starts to gain momentum and becomes a point of attraction in your field.
2. Maintaining a present-future focus
Smart, savvy folks strive to maintain a present-future focus. They know that you can’t hold onto old energy and that the best way to head where you want to go, is to create in the now based on what they would like to have in the future.
This doesn’t mean they aren’t present with everything they are doing, or that they don’t extract value and assimilate learning from past experiences, it just means while they are enjoying their present and contributing to others and themselves, they are simultaneously creating their future.
TIP: A future focus combined with inspired action and presence now can create anything.
3. Appreciating everything, even so called challenges
The art of appreciation is essentially adoring something or someone without expectation. It’s like loving on everything around you, which makes you stand out to others like a beacon. All the effective individuals I’ve ever met have one thing in common; extreme appreciation for everyone and everything in their life, even their challenges.
Winners appreciate obstacles because they provide the opportunity to hone their skills and presence, expand their horizons and step into something greater.
TIP: Once you can see your challenges as an opportunity for growth, everything becomes something to love or learn from.
“Nobody is exempt from the trials of life, but everyone can always find something positive in everything even in the worst of times.” – Roy T Bennett
4. Taking responsibility for themselves, their lives and choices
We are so entrained to think that life happens to us and that we must react accordingly. Exceptional individuals know that they are powerful creators and that everything they encounter is a match at least in part for their own beliefs or emotional state.
They understand that they always have a choice and they operate from a place where their inner well-being has a greater significance than beliefs that others might attribute to external events.
By retaining a positive and stable inner state in the face of all outcomes, they are ensuring that their future trajectory remains buoyant. I am not suggesting a spiritual by-pass here, just a genuine commitment to staying aligned and happy no matter what is going on around you.
TIP: Your point of view defines your reality, your reality doesn’t define your point of view.
5. They aren’t afraid to go deep
Mega achievers welcome discomfort in their thoughts, feelings or emotions and see it as an invitation to ask themselves a question and investigate a little deeper.
They know they are a work in progress and that getting uncomfortable is a great sign, as they are about to identify and let go of something that no longer serves them and gain awareness that allows them to become the best version of themselves.
Winners recognize the value in being emotionally consistent, spiritually aware and will identify ways of processing their inner world that are pragmatic and work for them. Which in turn allows them to be present and effective in all that they do.
TIP: The more we investigate our own patterns and use this information to let go of what we no longer need and step up, the more possibilities we can create.
6. They align energetically so that they can put in less effort
Alignment is like a re-discovered superpower that many are using to great effect. Whether we are active and consistent in creating with this or bring things about inadvertently, we all use it to some degree.
If you look at some people you know and go “How do they do that”? Chances are they are creating with ease because they are highly aligned with themselves and therefore the world around them.
Alignment is a fancy word for having a very high vibration (or consistently positive thoughts and feelings) from which we can effortlessly use Universal energies to draw to us what we desire most.
Those who are naturally very aligned, sense when a decision, place or thing isn’t right for them, because it feels bad or heavy. Similarly, because they are very high vibration, they will attract people, places and things of a similar ilk, making it look like they are naturally very lucky.
TIP: Investing time and effort into mastering your vibration can make your life much easier and bring huge gains for relatively little effort.
“When in doubt, check if your actions are aligned with your purpose.” – Azim Jamal
7. They combine visualization with action steps to create an unstoppable force field
A common misperception around using the power of visualization to achieve success is that visualizing or even wishing is enough. Inspirational people know the value of visualization in creating success, but they are also aware to harness this they must take inspired action to bring their vision to fruition.
A difference between millionaires and billionaires is that billionaires visualize their success more times each day than millionaires, but you can guarantee, that they both take appropriate and inspired action.
TIP: Visualizing your completed goals and the associated feelings of joy and accomplishment once or more a day when done for a minimum of 17 seconds and up to 68 seconds, combined with inspired action creates as Esther Hicks says, “A force that changes worlds”.
Which one of these tips are you going to start focusing on more today? Leave your thoughts below!
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Life
9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World
Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.
Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.
Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”
But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.
Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.
Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.
1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse
As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.
Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.
Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:
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Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.
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Read quality literature in your free time.
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Nurture a strong relationship with your family.
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Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.
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Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.
The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.
2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay
You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.
If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.
3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome
Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.
You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.
The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.
4. Rejection Is Never Personal
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.
Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.
5. Women Value Comfort and Security
Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.
Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.
Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.
6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons
A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.
Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.
Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.
7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form
Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.
It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.
If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.
8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise
Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.
Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.
Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.
9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams
One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.
That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.
Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.
Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.
Final Thoughts
The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.
Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.
Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.
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