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4 Lessons I’ve Learned From Sending 3 Million Emails

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As an entrepreneur, the heart of your business lies in your email marketing efforts. Sixty-four percent of small businesses use email marketing to reach their customers. Each year this percent will grow because email marketing can turn a fledgling business into the leader of the pack. What you do with those emails matters. Whether you’re a branding coach that helps newly service-based women or you’re like me – an expert content freelancer helping others learn to make a business online –at the end of your email marketing efforts, you’ll hopefully come away with lessons for improvement. I learned these lessons from sending three million emails.

Why Email Matters

There are 36% of small businesses worldwide that aren’t using email marketing tactics to grow their business. With 59% Millennials and 67% Gen Z checking their emails on mobile, this means people of all ages are still reading emails and still using emails to make informed decisions. With a welcome email followed by a targeted funnel, your email marketing plan begins to shape. Learn from my lessons on nurture tactics you can use for your email marketing.

1. It Doesn’t Matter When You Send Your Emails

Send too many emails and ruin the chance of creating brand ambassadors. Send too few emails and your brand won’t exist in the eyes of your subscribers. What I learned from sending my emails every week at 11 am or doing A/B testing on whether to send it at 10 or 11 am., is that it doesn’t matter when you send your emails. Your open and click through rates should be relatively stable any time of the week.

If you’ve spent the time delivering valuable emails, when doesn’t matter. I often take a few weeks off during the summer and winter holidays. This hasn’t hurt my open rates when I email them four weeks later. Why? Because I provide value. This year I offered a 15-page free Business Plan template. After a four week hiatus, I had a 33% open rate and a 4.4% Click-through rate for 24,000 subscribers. If you have any number of subscribers on our list, treat them with value, and they will be excitedly waiting for your next newsletter.

“Email has an ability many channels don’t: creating valuable, personal touches – at scale.” – David Newman

2. There is No Need For “Bro” Marketing Tactics

There could be a “bro” hiding in your business, and you wouldn’t even realize it! Bro marketing is a coined term that describes sleazy, manipulative, over-the-top marketing tactics. It’s the pop-ups everywhere on your website, the every hour email you send, the hyped-up scarcity tactics you use all the time, and more. Many entrepreneurs had a bro hiding and didn’t realize how toxic this strategy is for them and their business. Listen to me: No More Bros! 

Fortunately, I did not use “bro marketing” tactics or any email templates you see online that screamed dude marketing.  While everyone was throwing this down my throat in Facebook groups, I chose a very different approach: The Human Approach. I shared snippets of my life in my email (for example, this past summer there was a wasp that got stuck in between my 1940’s window panes – twice! It was a scary sitch) and then provided action tips that my subscribers could use that day to propel their freelance business even more. I also used simple language (what my subscribers say to me in replies), and I was tactful when it came to promoting my products. The Human Approach helped me build a six-figure business.

3. One Newsletter Can Change Everything

An unexpected business lesson I discovered was on how an email could change everything. There are a few lesson-generated emails that I can remember. The first one was an accendial $1k email. I used the AIDA (attention-interest-desire-action) principle without realizing it, and within hours I earned $1k. This shows how to cultivate a raving fan base that will patiently wait for your emails. 

The second business-changing email was when I opened up and told my subscribers a personal story about my health and stress. Any marketer would advise you not to get too personal, but that email generated hundreds of replies. I started to develop a closer connection with my subscribers simply from letting my guard down and taking it all in. 

The final email that changed my viewpoint on business was a promotional deal outside of my standard promotional campaigns. This email tanked and made me realize that too many deals hurts your overall conversion rates. My subscribers waited for my yearly deal and did not take my out of season deal. With your email, condition your subscribers to wait for your amazing deals. In your entrepreneurial journey, you may find that your emails aren’t connecting or that one line you mentioned in your Instagram Reel generated a hundred new followers. Take these little bits of highs and lows and use them to make better decisions next time around. 

4. Your True Subscribers Only Want You

I thought my subscribers only wanted the latest tips and resources to help them find clients for years. I also thought they didn’t care about my twins or what I do behind the scenes of my business. I was wrong! When I started sharing tidbits about my life, my subscribers suddenly became actual people and not random people on my list. This human element is missing in a lot of business emails I receive. Storytelling is a solid copywriting skill and by tapping into the emotions of your subscribers, you are better able to provide what they need the most. Don’t hide, just share your experiences and watch your conversions improve.

As an entrepreneur, it’s a standard practice to cultivate a strong email readership with raving fans. Traditional marketing tactics aren’t doing it anymore. Don’t waste your time on print media, or trying to serve en masse instead of your core avatar. Instead, focus on what will bring in the most significant ROI for your business. And, that one thing is email marketing. Luckily, 59% of B2B marketers know that email is the most effective revenue generator. What are you waiting for? Develop an email marketing campaign that is filled with intense value and storytelling that will make all your subscribers wait for your next newsletter.

Elna Cain writes insanely useful and valuable guides on content marketing and entrepreneurship. With two businesses under her belt, it's her passion to help people learn how to turn their writing into a profitable business. For more help grab her free Business Plan for freelancers.

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9 Harsh Truths Every Young Man Must Face to Succeed in the Modern World

Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.

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Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.

Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”

But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.

Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.

Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.

1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse

As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.

Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.

Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:

  • Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.

  • Read quality literature in your free time.

  • Nurture a strong relationship with your family.

  • Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.

  • Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.

The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.

2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay

You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.

If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.

3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome

Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.

You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.

The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.

4. Rejection Is Never Personal

Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.

Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.

5. Women Value Comfort and Security

Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.

Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.

Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.

6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons

A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.

Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.

Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.

7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form

Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.

It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.

If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.

8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise

Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.

Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.

Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.

9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams

One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.

That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.

Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.

Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.

Final Thoughts

The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.

Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.

Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.

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11 Mark Manson Lessons That’ll Redefine Success in the Digital Age

Success in the digital age isn’t about hacks, it’s about the raw, real lessons Mark Manson actually lives by.

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