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7 of the Most Important Leadership Competencies

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It can be a challenge to lead organizations effectively due to several underlying factors, including changing demographics, resource constraints, precarious jobs, increased pressures for impact and accountability, and more. These things make it vital to understand leadership competencies for the future. Organizations need to put in the work needed to strengthen communities through leaders of tomorrow. These are leaders that demonstrate the following seven key competencies.

1. Co-Creation

Being a leader means being a co-creator. This is the ability to build strong, adaptive and diverse organizations with clear visions, missions and values. You develop relationships and trust with your team members as a means to become more effective and find your own leadership style. If you succeed in this, it is reasonable to assume you’ll see an improvement in employee performance and morale.

Co-creators develop the building blocks needed to form nations, policies, and cultures with and by those they lead. They are the facilitators driving organizations and the catalysts of shared success. According to my friend David Nour, co-creation allows leaders to provide opportunities for the development of great ideas and ultimately take part in the outcomes. In his book, Co-Create: How Your Business Will Profit from Innovative and Strategic Collaboration, he talks about how taking credit for outcomes can be antithetical to the success of teams. Instead sharing successes and failures through strategic collaboration, brings more innovation and profit.

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2. Systems Thinking

A systems thinker is a leader who anticipates change, assesses data, and develops strategies. The ability to think logically is a vital component of effective leadership. It helps to establish a solid foundation for the development of leaders. In the Journal of Leadership Education, John Ricketts found a positive relationship between critical thinking ability and leadership effectiveness. Thinking deeply about the secondary effects of your behaviors and actions, brings about a greater self-awareness and ultimately unleashes the productivity of everyone around you. 

My mentors Art Kleiner and Peter Senge taught me an incredibly valuable skill – the ability to discover all variables affecting behaviors in a system to create a behavior over time chart. You identify every single variable affecting a decision, and then show their interrelationships. Variables that have a direct relationship are given an “s” for “same” which will increase its value. And, variables that have an indirect are given an “o” showing that increasing one of the variables will reduce the other. 

For example, if the problem is about ice cream and its effect on diabetes, there are three potential variables. Hunger, Eating, Ice Cream and diabetes. As you hunger, you want to eat more (same direction or “s”). As you eat more ice cream, it’s reasonable to assume you will get more diabetes (same direction or “s”). Therefore you have a reinforcing system of negative behavior. The way to break this system is to create a variable that has the opposite effect on eating behavior – like making a healthy choice. As you make a healthy choice, you reduce ice cream (opposite or “o” relationship), and thus you will have less diabetes.

These same tactics can easily be applied to decision making for leaders. By understanding what affects your behaviors have on the larger system, it will be easier to make the right decisions and get the best possible outcomes.

3. Mentoring

Mentors are leaders who always support their followers or subordinates. Additionally, they trust people and are empathetic towards them. Mentors prioritize the development of other leaders who can step in and take charge if needed.

A mentor looks to improve the world by helping people grow and by encouraging them to support others.  A study in the Journal of Leadership and Organization Studies, found that employees benefit significantly from mentoring, and “Employee opinions about mentoring are reported as uniformly positive.”

“Outstanding leaders go out of the way to boost the self-esteem of their personnel. If people believe in themselves, it’s amazing what they can accomplish.” – Sam Walton

4. Storytelling

Storytellers communicate the mission and vision through honest and compelling stories. Leaders must understand the foundations of good storytelling. Although there is no magic recipe for telling a good story, there are certain rules for storytelling that every leader should follow. This includes:

  •   Telling the story as if you were talking to a friend
  •   Making the story people-centric
  •   Focusing the story on conflicts and their resolution
  •   Staying humble while telling the story

A study in the Social and Behavioral Sciences journal finds that when used appropriately, storytelling can help a leader to communicate their thoughts to subordinates, share their expertise, develop a common mission, and peacefully settle disputes.

5. Innovation Mindset

Having an innovation mindset requires curiosity and a hunger for learning. Leaders with an innovation mindset encourage experimentation and risk-taking. Innovative leaders are visionaries with great ideas who inspire and encourage others to turn those ideas into reality. Generally, an innovative leader simply recognizes a brilliant idea—typically conceived by a subordinate—and envisages the direction that would lead to the realization of that idea. Most leaders see innovation as the greatest driver of change within organizations in the future. What does that mean for future leaders? Future leaders must be innovators.

6. Relationship Building

Leaders who are great at relationship building, promote learning and change within organizations. They are good at developing relationships, networks, and partnerships. The purpose of this is to further the organization’s mission and impact as well as share knowledge and ideas across the organization.

Relationship builders offer input in their areas of specialization while linking subordinates with those on the team or within the company who can best meet their individual needs. In a HBR article, “Managers Can’t Be Great Coaches All by Themselves, they must be connectors,” the author lists four different types of managers and ranks ‘connectors’ as the best amongst them.

Relationship building requires a deep understanding of others, and the ability to give what is needed, and ask for what you need one hundred percent of the time. Relationships are two ways – so the best relationship builders begin by getting to know the other person’s needs fully, and then giving what is needed to formulate a strong bond and trusting relationship.

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7. Steward Leadership

Steward leaders direct, manage and protect the human capital and financial resources of an organization. They serve as trustees for organizations—large and small—that want to grow and change. Stewards must stay true to their organization’s long-term vision while pursuing short-term goals that are consistent with the organization’s core values.

A common topic of discussion amongst the top brass of organizations is how to move towards the vision of a future leader? The seven leadership competencies defined above provide a framework that organizations can build upon to create the leaders of the future.

Louis Carter, MA, is founder and CEO of Most Loved Workplace, Best Practice Institute, Results Based Culture and the author of more than 10 books on best practices in leadership and management, including Change Champion’s Field Guide, In Great Company and Best Practices in Talent Management. He is voted as one of Global Gurus Top 10 Organizational Culture gurus in the world and is one of the top advisers to C-level executives, helping them and their organizations achieve measurable results. You can follow Louis on Twitter at @louislcarter.

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Before chasing success, every young man needs to face these 9 brutal realities shaping masculinity in the modern world.

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Many young men today quietly battle depression, loneliness, and a sense of confusion about who they’re meant to be.

Some blame the lack of deep friendships or romantic relationships. Others feel lost in a digital world that often labels traditional masculinity as “toxic.”

But the truth is this: becoming a man in the modern age takes more than just surviving. It takes resilience, direction, and a willingness to grow even when no one’s watching.

Success doesn’t arrive by accident or luck. It’s built on discipline, sacrifice, and consistency.

Here are 9 harsh truths every young man should know if he wants to thrive, not just survive, in the digital age.

1. Never Use Your Illness as an Excuse

As Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often says, successful people don’t complain; they act.

Your illness, hardship, or struggle shouldn’t define your limits; it should define your motivation. Rest when you must, but always get back up and keep building your dreams. Motivation doesn’t appear magically. It comes after you take action.

Here are five key lessons I’ve learned from Dr. Peterson:

  • Learn to write clearly; clarity of thought makes you dangerous.

  • Read quality literature in your free time.

  • Nurture a strong relationship with your family.

  • Share your ideas publicly; your voice matters.

  • Become a “monster”, powerful, but disciplined enough to control it.

The best leaders and thinkers are grounded. They welcome criticism, adapt quickly, and keep moving forward no matter what.

2. You Can’t Please Everyone And That’s Okay

You don’t need a crowd of people to feel fulfilled. You need a few friends who genuinely accept you for who you are.

If your circle doesn’t bring out your best, it’s okay to walk away. Solitude can be a powerful teacher. It gives you space to understand what you truly want from life. Remember, successful men aren’t people-pleasers; they’re purpose-driven.

3. You Can Control the Process, Not the Outcome

Especially in creative work, writing, business, or content creation, you control effort, not results.

You might publish two articles a day, but you can’t dictate which one will go viral. Focus on mastery, not metrics. Many great writers toiled for years in obscurity before anyone noticed them. Rejection, criticism, and indifference are all part of the path.

The best creators focus on storytelling, not applause.

4. Rejection Is Never Personal

Rejection doesn’t mean you’re unworthy. It simply means your offer, idea, or timing didn’t align.

Every successful person has faced rejection repeatedly. What separates them is persistence and perspective. They see rejection as feedback, not failure. The faster you learn that truth, the faster you’ll grow.

5. Women Value Comfort and Security

Understanding women requires maturity and empathy.

Through books, lectures, and personal growth, I’ve learned that most women desire a man who is grounded, intelligent, confident, emotionally stable, and consistent. Some want humor, others intellect, but nearly all want to feel safe and supported.

Instead of chasing attention, work on self-improvement. Build competence and confidence, and the rest will follow naturally.

6. There’s No Such Thing as Failure, Only Lessons

A powerful lesson from Neuro-Linguistic Programming: failure only exists when you stop trying.

Every mistake brings data. Every setback builds wisdom. The most successful men aren’t fearless. They’ve simply learned to act despite fear.

Be proud of your scars. They’re proof you were brave enough to try.

7. Public Speaking Is an Art Form

Public speaking is one of the most valuable and underrated skills a man can master.

It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection. The best speakers tell stories, inspire confidence, and make people feel seen. They research deeply, speak honestly, and practice relentlessly.

If you can speak well, you can lead, sell, teach, and inspire. Start small, practice at work, in class, or even in front of a mirror, and watch your confidence skyrocket.

8. Teaching Is Leadership in Disguise

Great teachers are not just knowledgeable. They’re brave, compassionate, and disciplined.

Teaching forces you to articulate what you know, and in doing so, you master it at a deeper level. Whether you’re mentoring a peer, leading a team, or sharing insights online, teaching refines your purpose.

Lifelong learners become lifelong leaders.

9. Study Human Nature to Achieve Your Dreams

One of the toughest lessons to accept: most people are self-interested.

That’s not cynicism, it’s human nature. Understanding this helps you navigate relationships, business, and communication more effectively.

Everyone has a darker side, but successful people learn to channel theirs productively into discipline, creativity, and drive.

Psychology isn’t just theory; it’s a toolkit. Learn how people think, act, and decide, and you’ll know how to lead them, influence them, and even understand yourself better.

Final Thoughts

The digital age offers endless opportunities, but only to those who are willing to take responsibility, confront discomfort, and keep improving.

Becoming a man today means embracing the hard truths most avoid.

Because at the end of the day, success isn’t about luck. It’s about who you become when life tests you the most.

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