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Why One-Size-Fits-All Leadership Will Always Fail (and What Works Instead)
The surprising truth about leadership styles that can make or break your team’s success.

Leadership has always been as much about people as it is about performance. Ken Blanchard, in his influential book, “The One Minute Manager”, put it simply: different strokes for different folks.
Every individual has unique needs, emotions, and aspirations, and there is no quick-fix formula for leading them effectively.
The best leaders are those who can read the room, understand the aspirations of their people, and adapt their style to get things done without breaking trust or morale.
No Quick Fix Formula
There are countless definitions of leadership and management. For me, management can be summed up as:
“Managing human egos, emotions, and feelings effectively.”
At any workplace, you’ll find employees driven by different motivators:
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Some seek money.
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Others want power.
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Some crave appreciation or recognition.
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Others value meaningful, non-financial rewards.
A leader who tries to apply one single style will quickly run into resistance. To be effective, you need flexibility: the ability to adapt your leadership strokes to suit the individual.
People Are Different
Look around any office and you’ll see the spectrum of human behaviour. Some are extroverts who thrive on collaboration, while others are introverts who prefer quiet focus. Some are direct, while others can be more political or manipulative.
Leading them all is no easy task. The challenge is to:
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Get the work done effectively.
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Avoid unnecessary conflict.
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Leave people feeling respected, not resentful.
On paper, leadership sounds straightforward. In reality, you face countless unwritten challenges, personality clashes, and shifting dynamics.
What helps is drawing from a mix of learning: books, mentors, personal experiences, and the lessons of others. Over time, this mix becomes the foundation of your own leadership style.
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs at Work
One of the most practical tools for understanding motivation is Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.
At its base are physiological needs like food and shelter. Above that are safety, social belonging, self-esteem, and finally, self-actualisation. Each level builds on the previous one.
In the workplace, this translates to recognising that:
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Younger employees may be more focused on money and job security.
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Mid-career employees might crave recognition, responsibility, or a sense of progress.
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Senior employees often seek purpose and meaningful contributions beyond financial gain.
Understanding where each person sits on this hierarchy allows leaders to tailor their approach. This isn’t about manipulation; it’s about meeting people where they are and helping them move forward.
Stephen’s Challenge: A Case Study
Take the example of Stephen, who came from a military background and became the director of an academic institution.
In the military, discipline was ingrained, and orders were followed without question. But in academia, Stephen quickly discovered a different reality: seven Heads of Departments, each with strong personalities, frequent complaints, and a host of ego-driven conflicts.
At first, Stephen struggled. Managing academics, with their varied egos and perceptions, was far more complex than commanding soldiers. Conferences turned heated, grievances piled up, and personality clashes stalled progress.
But Stephen adapted. He:
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Shed his rigid military practices.
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Adopted an open-door policy.
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Listened carefully before making decisions.
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Counseled those who stirred conflict.
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Took firm action when necessary, including warning or removing persistent troublemakers.
Over time, staff began to appreciate his fairness and dedication. The institution became more accountable, productive, and peaceful. Stephen’s story shows that leadership is about passion, adaptability, and the courage to put people first, without losing sight of the mission.
The Core Lesson
Leadership is not about pressing buttons on machines: it’s about working with human beings, each with their own egos, emotions, and quirks.
There is no magic wand. There is no cookie-cutter approach. Instead, effective leadership requires:
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Patience – recognising that people learn and respond differently.
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Flexibility – adjusting your style to suit the individual and the situation.
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Empathy – understanding what truly motivates each person.
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Discipline – knowing when to counsel, when to encourage, and when to act firmly.
Even twins, who may share DNA, do not share identical personalities. Leaders must remember that every person marches to their own drummer, and it’s the leader’s job to tune into that rhythm.
Final Thoughts
Great leadership is about balance. It’s about guiding without crushing, encouraging without coddling, and correcting without discouraging.
If you want to lead effectively, stop searching for the quick fix. Instead, recognise the rich variety of human nature and adapt your strokes for different folks.
Because in the end, leadership isn’t about managing processes: it’s about inspiring people.
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Your first 100 days as CEO could define your entire legacy, here’s how to make every move count

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The Leadership Shift Every Company Needs in 2025
Struggling to keep your team engaged? Here’s how leaders can turn frustrated employees into loyal advocates.

In workplaces around the world, there’s a growing gap between employers and employees and between superiors and their teams. It’s a common refrain: “People don’t leave companies, they leave bad bosses.”
While there are, of course, cases where management could do better, this isn’t just a “bad boss” problem. The relationship between leaders and employees is complex. Instead of assigning blame, we should explore practical solutions to build stronger, healthier workplaces where everyone thrives.
Why This Gap Exists
Every workplace needs someone to guide, supervise, and provide feedback. That’s essential for productivity and performance. But because there are usually far more employees than managers, dissatisfaction, fair or not, spreads quickly.
What if, instead of focusing on blame, we focused on building trust, empathy, and communication? This is where modern leadership and human-centered management can make a difference.
Tools and Techniques to Bridge the Gap
Here are proven strategies leaders and employees can use to foster stronger relationships and create a workplace where people actually want to stay.
1. Practice Mutual Empathy
Both managers and employees need to recognize they are ultimately on the same team. Leaders have to balance people and performance, and often face intense pressure to hit targets. Employees who understand this reality are more likely to cooperate and problem-solve collaboratively.
2. Maintain Professional Boundaries
Superiors should separate personal issues from professional decision-making. Consistency, fairness, and integrity build trust, and trust is the foundation of a motivated team.
3. Follow the Golden Rule
Treat people how you would like to be treated. This simple principle encourages compassion and respect, two qualities every effective leader must demonstrate.
4. Avoid Micromanagement
Micromanaging stifles creativity and damages morale. Great leaders see themselves as partners, not just bosses, and treat their teams as collaborators working toward a shared goal.
5. Empower Employees to Grow
Empowerment means giving employees responsibility that matches their capacity, and then trusting them to deliver. Encourage them to take calculated risks, learn from mistakes, and problem-solve independently. If something goes wrong, turn it into a learning opportunity, not a reprimand.
6. Communicate in All Directions
Communication shouldn’t just be top-down. Invite feedback, create open channels for suggestions, and genuinely listen to what your people have to say. Healthy upward communication closes gaps before they become conflicts.
7. Overcome Insecurities
Many leaders secretly fear being outshone by younger, more tech-savvy employees. Instead of resisting, embrace the chance to learn from them. Humility earns respect and helps the team innovate faster.
8. Invest in Coaching and Mentorship
True leaders grow other leaders. Provide mentorship, career guidance, and stretch opportunities so employees can develop new skills. Leadership is learned through experience, but guided experience is even more powerful.
9. Eliminate Favoritism
Avoid cliques and office politics. Decisions should be based on facts and fairness, not gossip. Objective, transparent decision-making builds credibility.
10. Recognize Efforts Promptly
Recognition often matters more than rewards. Publicly appreciate employees’ contributions and do so consistently and fairly. A timely “thank you” can be more motivating than a quarterly bonus.
11. Conduct Thoughtful Exit Interviews
When employees leave, treat it as an opportunity to learn. Keep interviews confidential and use the insights to improve management practices and culture.
12. Provide Leadership Development
Train managers to lead, not just supervise. Leadership development programs help shift mindsets from “command and control” to “coach and empower.” This transformation has a direct impact on morale and retention.
13. Adopt Soft Leadership Principles
Today’s workforce, largely millennials and Gen Z, value collaboration over hierarchy. Soft leadership focuses on partnership, mutual respect, and shared purpose, rather than rigid top-down control.
The Bigger Picture: HR’s Role
Mercer’s global research highlights five key priorities for organizations:
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Build diverse talent pipelines
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Embrace flexible work models
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Design compelling career paths
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Simplify HR processes
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Redefine the value HR brings
The challenge? Employers and employees often view these priorities differently. Bridging that perception gap is just as important as bridging the relational gap between leaders and staff.
Treat Employees Like Associates, Not Just Staff
When you treat employees like partners, they bring their best selves to work. HR leaders must develop strategies to keep talent engaged, empowered, and prepared for the future.
Organizational success starts with people, always. Build the relationship with your team first, and the results will follow.
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