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Leadership vs. Popularity: Why You Can’t Have Both

True leadership demands sacrifice, not applause or approval

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In today’s world, leadership is often mistaken for popularity. But true leadership is not about being liked, it’s about being responsible, accountable, and results-driven. While popularity seeks approval, leadership seeks progress. And more often than not, that progress comes at a cost.

The Reality Behind the Role

Leadership is not glamorous. It demands sacrifices, tough decisions, and unwavering resilience. Leaders carry the weight of responsibility, facing both praise and criticism, often receiving more of the latter. It’s a role filled with challenges and rarely appreciated in real time. As the saying goes, “Uneasy lies the head that wears a crown.”

Frieda Fromm-Reichmann once said, “People are more frightened of being lonely than of being hungry, or being deprived of sleep, or of having their sexual needs unfulfilled.” That quote captures the isolating nature of leadership. Leaders often find themselves alone, not because they lack support, but because they cannot openly share their doubts, weaknesses, or frustrations for fear of misinterpretation or misuse.

They’re caught in a paradox: bound to their oath of office, yet yearning to pursue ideas close to their hearts. They must be cautious with relationships, as even friendly interactions can lead to expectations they cannot ethically fulfill.

Leadership vs. Popularity

Leadership and popularity rarely coexist. While popular figures seek validation, leaders are focused on vision, values, and results. If a leader happens to become popular, it’s a by-product, not the objective.

When things go well, praise follows. But when plans falter, criticism is swift and often harsh. Unlike the average person, leaders don’t enjoy the same level of privacy or freedom. Every move is watched, every word weighed. They give up a great deal of personal liberty for the sake of public service.

“Criticism is something you can avoid easily by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” — Aristotle

The Cost of Responsibility

John C. Maxwell puts it clearly: “The price of leadership is criticism. No one pays much attention to last-place finishers, but when you’re in front, everything gets noticed.”

No leader can satisfy everyone. Their decisions may have good intentions, but the outcomes can upset certain groups. The consequence? Backlash, disapproval, and sometimes even danger. History has shown this time and again: Mahatma Gandhi, Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King Jr., and John F. Kennedy were all assassinated not because they were ineffective, but because their vision challenged the status quo.

Leadership is about making tough choices, often in the face of fierce opposition. It’s about staying the course, even when critics are loud and the journey is lonely.

Leadership Is About Responsibility, Not Applause

Leadership is not a quest for approval, it’s a commitment to action. It’s about doing the right thing, not the easy thing. Leaders must be willing to endure discomfort, stand in the line of fire, and accept that they cannot please everyone.

To lead is to walk a path filled with both bouquets and brickbats. It’s about conviction, clarity, and courage, not claps.

Professor M.S. Rao, Ph. D., is a 21st-century Philosopher and the Father of “Soft Leadership.” He is an International Leadership Guru and the Founder of MSR Leadership Consultants, India. He has forty-four years of diversified experience, including military, and is the author of fifty-four books, including the award-winning See the Light in You.

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