When I was 15 years old, I joined my school publication to become a student journalist.
That decision changed my life.

Through the high school newspaper, I learned to write news, opinion, and feature articles. One of my teachers gave me a piece of advice that still sticks with me today:

“You’re not a writer if you’re not a reader.”

From that moment, I began reading non-fiction books and novels. My vocabulary grew, my ideas expanded, and I began to truly understand the power of storytelling.

Writing Tips That Changed My Life

Over the years, I’ve collected a handful of writing principles that have shaped my style and improved my craft:

• Write in short sentences and short paragraphs – This makes your writing more readable.

• Read your work out loud – It’s the fastest way to spot awkward phrasing or mistakes.

• Develop your own writing voice – It’s what makes you stand out from the rest.

• Write to help one person – When you picture helping just one reader, your writing becomes clearer and more impactful.

• Stick to a writing schedule – Consistency builds momentum and skill.

But writing is just one skill. Over time, I’ve also learned that the best mentors go far beyond just sharing knowledge. They guide, inspire, and lead by example.

Here are 7 steps to becoming a great mentor in the digital age, principles I’ve learned, lived, and continue to refine.

1. Lead by Example, Not by Fear

I grew up in a family of educators.

Both of my parents loved teaching, and they instilled in me a love for public speaking and sharing knowledge. Their example taught me that credibility comes from practicing what you preach.

Someone once told me, “Be your own case study.” If you have proof, critics can’t question your value.

The best mentors motivate, inspire, and show what’s possible not through intimidation, but through action.

2. Teach Skills That Deliver Real Results

In the real world, effort matters, but results matter more.

If you have a headache, you go to a doctor not because they “tried hard,” but because they can give you the right treatment.

Here are three skills that have transformed my own life and the lives of those I’ve mentored:

• Writing – Learn persuasion and copywriting to communicate with impact.

• Time Management – Tackle your most important tasks first thing in the morning.

• Creativity – Read widely on different subjects to spark fresh ideas.

As Seth Godin says, “Skill is earned.” You must work at it, day in, day out, if you want to achieve mastery.

3. Build Character to Build Reputation

Your reputation is built on your character, and your character is built on knowing who you are.

Some people thrive in competition, while others prefer collaboration. Trying new experiences will reveal both your strengths and weaknesses.

Joining communities with shared values helps you grow and surround yourself with people who push you forward. In the end, your reputation will be tied to the skillset and values you’re known for.

4. Seek Feedback Relentlessly

When I worked as an English teacher, I would review my students’ answers after every lesson. Their results showed me whether my teaching was effective.

Feedback, positive or negative, is not a threat; it’s a gift.

The benefits of feedback include:

• Improving your craft.

• Identifying your strengths and weaknesses.

• Staying motivated to grow.

Data doesn’t lie. Mistakes are simply part of the learning process.

5. Create Systems for Productivity

A good system breaks down a goal into clear, actionable steps.

Just like a recipe shows you how to cook a dish, a productivity system should tell you exactly what to do next.

Some proven productivity habits include:

• Eliminating distractions while working.

• Taking breaks after completing major tasks.

• Creating a to-do list the night before to start your day with clarity.

High performers respect their own time and the time of others.

6. Study Human Nature

Every mentor serves a specific audience.

Teachers serve students. Entrepreneurs serve customers. Soldiers serve their country.

After studying copywriting, I discovered that people often value status, time, and income more than anything else.

Understanding human nature helps you:

• Discover what motivates people to act.

• Build habits that stick.

• Inspire others to reach their goals.

This knowledge gives you a competitive advantage because when you truly understand people, you can connect, influence, and lead them effectively.

7. Prioritise Mental Health

Success means nothing if you’re burnt out.

Pursue hobbies that bring you joy and connect you with others. Some entrepreneurs play golf because it helps them network, but your hobbies don’t have to be strategic; they just have to nourish your well-being.

A healthy mind will allow you to show up fully, think clearly, and perform at your highest level.

Final Thoughts

Becoming a great mentor in the digital age isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being committed to growth, both for yourself and those you guide.

Lead by example. Teach meaningful skills. Build character. Seek feedback. Create systems. Understand people. And above all, take care of your mind.

Mastery is not a destination; it’s a journey of constant learning, sharing, and evolving.