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9 Influencers On Facebook Who Are More Valuable Than Your Real Friends

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The people you follow on social media have an effect on your success. If your newsfeed is clogged up with people who: complain, get upset at the government, make funny videos that add no value, and take selfies of themselves all day, your life is going to lack many valuable tools.

When you follow people on social media who’s aim it is to inspire you and give you strategies for success; it’s almost like having lot’s of successful millionaires advising you every day. There are lot’s of real influencers who are changing the game, and there are plenty of fakes as well.

To make your life easy, here are nine influencers on Facebook that are more valuable than your real friends:

 

1. Preston Smiles

Preston Smiles Facebook InfluencerThis man has been on the scene for a while, and he is most known for his incredibly inspiring YouTube videos. He is also the founder of an unusually cool organisation called “Love Mob.” Preston and his crazy team go around the world and create random acts of love.

For example, I heard in a podcast interview that Preston and his team went to a public place and got everyone singing the Beatles classic “All you need is love.”

These types of experiments are exactly what our world, and your world need to thrive. Preston is also an author and has been published by Simon & Schuster, so he is definitely making big waves.

Follow Preston here: https://www.facebook.com/prestonsmiles1

 

2. Peta Kelly

Peta Kelly Facebook InfluencerThis girl is a pocket rocket full of energy. Her way of being will challenge everything you thought you knew. Her messages are mostly targeted towards millennial entrepreneurs so if you fit into that category then watch out.

What amazes me about this young lady is the way wisdom just flows through her words. Most of what she says is unrehearsed and in the moment. She feeds off the energy of her followers and live audiences, and she will definitely leave you feeling inspired.

Peta’s message is one of hope and through her own success in business she demonstrates that anyone can be an entrepreneur and enjoy freedom. The passion she has just oozes out of her eye sockets, and you’ll learn some great strategies along the way.

Follow Peta here: https://www.facebook.com/petakellypage/videos

 

3. Lewis Howes

Lewis Howes Facebook InfluencerThis list wouldn’t be complete without the former athlete turned internet entrepreneur Lewis Howes has a highly engaging Facebook page, and a lot of what he does is to inspire people to start their very own online business.

He is regularly posting videos on how to achieve a goal like this and the content on his page is very different from his School Of Greatness Podcast. Many Facebook pages are about self-promotion, but Lewis’s is very focused on delivering value and sharing his knowledge, which I find rare.

Follow Lewis here: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/

 

4. Jairek Robbins

Jairek Robbins Facebook InfluencerThis guy is one of my favorite young coaches. He posts regular videos on Facebook with strategies you can use in your life right away. Jaireks Facebook live videos have become one of my favorite, and he also does some interesting interviews with successful people that I don’t always know.

The advice he gives is actionable and straight to the point. He has endless amounts of positivity, and he is a real thought leader.

Follow Jairek here: https://www.facebook.com/JairekRobbinsCompanies/

 

5. Peter Voogd

Peter Voogd Facebook InfluencerI find Peter’s advice on entrepreneurship very insightful. What’s different about Peter is that he has turned the whole concept of a mixtape on its head. Instead of an instrumental with someone rapping on it, Peter speaks words of inspiration to entrepreneurs over the top of inspirational soundtracks and beats.

At first, you may find the idea a bit strange, but once you get into it, it’s an entirely different way of being inspired.

Peter posts lots of his own picture quotes on Facebook to inspire you and his messages are so easy to understand, yet so powerful at the same time.

Follow Peter here: https://www.facebook.com/PeterJVoogd/

 

6. Prince EA

Prince EA Facebook InfluencerSo this guy has just got it going on when it comes to having a very different message to inspire the world. Prince EA first became well known with his famous YouTube videos, and now his Facebook page is something I check out daily.

The whole twist with his work is about changing the models that we have of the world and challenging the brules (BS rules). He uses the spoken word to deliver his insight, and he is someone that will make you see the world and the concept of race differently.

Follow Prince EA here: https://www.facebook.com/PrinceEa

 

7. Jake Ducey

Jake Ducey Facebook InfluencerThis spiritual leader is a must have on your Facebook. Jake gives off good vibes, and he is a humble guy in many ways. On a daily basis Jake posts inspiring content that focuses on the soul and has a scientific component to it.

Even if you’re not into the spiritual side of life, Jake has an endless amount of uplifting messages to take you away from what might be going wrong in your day.

He is also a leader in the book publishing space and sold 25,000 books by going door-to-door. You can definitely learn a thing or two from him about hustle and never giving up.

Follow Jake here: https://www.facebook.com/jakeduceytheauthor

 

8. Alexi Panos

Alexi Panos Facebook InfluencerAnother great find on Facebook who you may not have come across yet is Alexi Panos. She makes videos about how to improve yourself and change your thinking. She is high on energy and will share every strategy she knows.

She doesn’t just teach these concepts; she lives them in her own life. Alexi is real, transparent, and angelic like. Whatever she is drinking, I want some! As we transfer out of the information and into the spiritual age, more and more of us are starting to care about the way we are living and how we can help each other.

Greed is no longer good, and transparency is the new currency. Alexi embodies all of those qualities, and she will add some color and spice to your day.

Follow Alex here: https://www.facebook.com/alexipanospage

 

9. Tim Ferriss

Tim Ferriss Facebook InfluencerFinally, there is no way I could put the words influencer and Facebook in the same sentence without mentioning the Oprah of the podcasting world, Tim Ferriss. His Facebook page will give you the daily life hacks and productivity tips that you are missing, as well as quick tutorials on how you can make a change in your life.

His written posts tend to be quite lengthy, and he is the master of coming up with original ideas that you have never thought of. I also find his page a great way to find out about new technology that is coming to the market.

The one warning I will give you is that his regular Facebook Live videos are addictive. What’s cool is you can even ask Tim a question and have a good chance of him answering it.

Follow Tim here: https://www.facebook.com/TimFerriss

Are you going to clean up your newsfeed and add some inspirational influencers? Let me know in the comments section below or on my website timdenning.net and my Facebook.

Tim is best known as a long-time contributor on Addicted2Success. Tim's content has been shared millions of times and he has written multiple viral posts all around personal development and entrepreneurship.You can connect with Tim through his website www.timdenning.net

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  1. Adolph

    Jul 12, 2016 at 7:43 am

    Thanks for that! perhaps Mateusz M

    • Tim Denning

      Jul 14, 2016 at 7:16 pm

      Thank you Adolph. I am now following Mateusz M and I appreciate the recommendation.

  2. Rohan Thukral

    Jul 11, 2016 at 2:17 am

    My personal favorite is Elliot Hulse!!

    • Tim Denning

      Jul 11, 2016 at 7:24 am

      I’ll suss him out Rohan. Thanks for the heads up!

  3. Toño

    Jul 10, 2016 at 5:53 pm

    I think the meaning of the title has been used metaphorically in this very case, without any negative sense, describing those 9 influencers how the major example of why you still can use facebook and get lots and lots of valuable information and being in touch with amazing beings! I am well aware of more than half of them and can safely say, I would love to have Preston Smiles as my best body and he’s most definitely better than many people I know in so-called ‘real life’. Oh, and what the difference between real life friends or the internet ones? 🙂 They are all people of the same kind, the same real people behind the screens, who you just not met in person.

    Half of my friends are the ones I’ve never met but speak regularly on the internet and I feel pretty much happy I know them and able to have conversations and share the experience. You don’t have to give up your real friends, just take some time to invite new people into your life.

    Thank you, Tim, for great topic to think of. I am considering to get on FB sooner or later, I see many benefits now and yes, I forgot there are people who well worth following and who knows one day you may actually call them real life friends 😀

    Much love friend, have a wonderful day, speak soon!

    • Tim Denning

      Jul 11, 2016 at 1:06 am

      Thanks for your objective view Toño. If you’re not keen on signing up for Facebook you can also find many of the nine influencers on Youtube as well except I find Facebook has their most recent updates.

  4. Peter

    Jul 9, 2016 at 9:30 pm

    I would never give up any of my real friends for any or all of your “influencers”. I can’t help but think that you either don’t have any real friends or you don’t value your friends enough.

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3 Areas You Should Focus on to Become a Great Leader

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Having listened to all of our stakeholders and being fully aware of the situation, spring is a good time to conduct a quarterly review to see exactly where we are in order. This helps us have a clear starting point to re-adjust our goals for the coming year.

One of the main problems tends to be that we look back at the things we haven’t done and where we didn’t get the results we intended. Because of this, we get ourselves in a state of anxiety which is hardly a resourceful state for setting positive goals.

A better approach is to be nice to ourselves. Have a look back over the last three months and check all the things you have achieved. Give yourself a treat for all of the things you planned to achieve and did. They may be something as simple as maintaining a to-do list or smiling more.

Afterwards, think of all the things you achieved which weren’t planned and congratulate yourself on your flexibility and creativity; for the person with the greatest flexibility of behaviour controls the outcomes.

For those results that weren’t as you intended, remind yourself that we all make the correct choice at the time we make it. We don’t deliberately make the wrong choices and whatever the outcome, there’s always a positive intention. There’s no failure, only feedback, and we learn more from our failures than we do our successes.

“Be good to yourself. Listen to your body, to your heart. We’re very hard on ourselves, and we’re always feeling like we’re not doing enough. It’s a terribly hard job.” – Marcia Wallace

Look to yourself

It is vital, especially for sole proprietors or owner/managers, to manage themselves in order to be fit, healthy, and relatively happy. Evidence points to a clear relationship between our moods and assorted aspects of job performance such as decision-making, creativity, teamwork, negotiation and leadership.

While success may put us in a good mood, an organisation that sees the glass as half full rather than half empty, stands a better chance in these difficult times.

Depressed individuals will always see the glass as half-empty and even rapidly emptying. This attitude saps energy and leaves those affected feeling worthless, helpless, and hopeless. In its worst case, depression can impair the ability to communicate and it’s not hard to see the organisational parallels.

Below are three elements within all of us that need to be taken care of:

1. Your mind

The key to a healthy mind is variety, so take an interest in other people, things, events and current affairs. Adopting an open and curious mindset allows us to see future possibilities and hence be more empowered.

2. Your body

A healthy body requires a solid routine. Ensure you eat and drink healthy products (especially water) and get plenty of rest and exercise. Knowing our own limitations and taking action to stay within them ensures we operate at our best.

3. Your spirit

Much has been written about feeding or maintaining the spirit but I believe there is one simple rule. Believe in something that is true to you and spend time each day with your true beliefs. Solitude is the nurse of enthusiasm and is as needful to the imagination as friends are to our character.

“Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.” – Dolly Parton

Beyond individual performance, there are broader issues at stake. None of us are islands, happy in our own little depressed world. Moods, good or bad, are infectious and some people or positions can have a greater ripple effect than others. If a shy apprentice has a gloomy outlook, few may notice. But if people like the owner/manager are wandering around looking like the end of the world is coming, that can directly affect team spirit.

Water bearer or well poisoner

So what can the organisation do? Firstly, as individuals, we must show a positive and upbeat demeanor. That’s not easy and faking it will easily be spotted as the deception will be transparent. This isn’t unauthentic, but merely an attempt to empower ourselves.

Congruent leadership offers the means to put into words what it is you are experiencing with the person in order so your behaviour is consistent with your own values and beliefs such that you always appear to be what you desire to be.

Your mood as a leader then is highly contagious. Even though leaders or opinion formers aren’t always in leadership positions, they’re at the centre of informal networks. They have charisma and magnetism, possess strong opinions, and express them forcefully. Therefore, they have considerable social power and can have a direct effect on morale by being a water bearer or well poisoner. Which are you today?

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The 6 Step Process for Delivering Critical Feedback in a Constructive Way

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We have all been in the position where we knew we needed to have a difficult conversation at work that involved delivering constructive feedback. Maybe a major deadline was missed, there was a clear decline in performance, or someone blatantly dropped the ball. Most of us avoid delivering the feedback, and the conversation can get pushed back again and again, wasting valuable time and money.

Delivering constructive feedback is challenging, and uncomfortable for most people, even highly trained leaders. Yet, delivering and accepting feedback is one of the most important keys for success. So why do we avoid these conversations? Because we never learned how to have them.

Open, honest, direct communication is not a skill we are taught in school. There is no “How to Have Tough Conversations” 101. As a clinical psychologist that specializes in couples work, I see just how important communication is in maintaining thriving relationships. I understand that good communication is the foundation of every successful relationship; both intimate relationships and your work relationships.

Below is a 6-step guide to providing constructive feedback:

Step 1: Clarity on the Goal of the Conversation  

The first step is to get clear on the goal of the feedback conversation. Are you planning to see a change in performance, simply communicate how you felt, or receive an apology? Get clear on what you are hoping to get out of the conversation. Be honest with yourself about what you need, what is most helpful to the relationship, and what is most helpful to the organization. Getting clear on the goal also ensures you are speaking with the right person.

“I think it’s very important to have a feedback loop, where you’re constantly thinking about what you’ve done and how you could be doing it better.” – Elon Musk

Step 2: Invitation

Set up a time to talk. Feedback conversations are not meant to be had in the hallway. It is important that both parties can set aside adequate time and have the space needed for dialogue. Additionally, there must be respect for both parties’ need for time to process information. For example, if you are delivering feedback, and the receiver needs time to process the feedback before responding, setting up a subsequent meeting will be most helpful.

Step 3: Ownership

Own the role you played in creating the situation. When you model ownership of blind spots, failures, or missteps, you set the stage for the receiver to do the same. For example, you may acknowledge that you were not aware of how to support your employee and not aware of the problem until x situation occurred. Equally important as owning your role, is owning your emotions. Own your emotions using “I” statements. For example, “I felt disappointed when I realized your sales performance had substantially declined”.

Step 4: Open, Honest, Direct Feedback

Feedback that dances around the problem does not do anyone any good. It only increases anxiety on behalf of the receiver, and potentially causes the feedback to get totally lost. The conversation needs to be open, honest, and direct. For example: “I felt concerned when you did not attend the last two strategy calls this month…It brought up questions for me about your commitment to the company.”

Step 5: Listen, Validate and Accept

When providing feedback, it is important both parties maintain an open mind, and respond in a way that communicates validation and acceptance. As soon as an individual gets defensive, feedback cannot be taken in, and the value of the conversation dramatically decreases. When providing feedback it is important to listen, validate, and accept your receiver’s viewpoint. Notice, I did not say agree. This looks something like saying: “I can see why X led you to commit Y , I understand you were under a great deal of stress/dealing with a personal situation/frustrated.”

“We all need people who will give us feedback. That’s how we improve.” – Bill Gates

Step 6: A Clear Plan for Moving Forward

In providing feedback, the magic is that now things can change! If feedback is never given, relationships end, things will stay the same, businesses will die, and money will be lost. If you have gotten to this step, that means you did the hard work, and now you get to put change into action. A clear plan includes an acknowledgement from both parties regarding what they will do differently to prevent the situation from occurring again, and how they will stay accountable in making the change happen.

The good news about delivering feedback is that the more you do it, the easier it gets. Remember, giving and receiving feedback is one of the most surefire ways to open yourself up to massive growth.

As a giver of feedback, it is your job to model openness and a desire for growth, so that the receiver may take in the feedback and make the necessary changes. Exceling at feedback delivery will help you set you apart from others and enable you to achieve extraordinary relationships, in both your personal and work lives.

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Here Are 4 Reasons Why You Should Have a Podcast, Youtube Channel or Online Show

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Confidence comes from a place of strong understanding of self. After close to three years on radio, I’ve grown from a shy introvert to a shy introvert with an extrovert persona. When the mic is turned on, I can channel a version of myself that some say is attractive, strong, and of course, confident but it wasn’t always this way.

What I want to share with you is what I discovered on this journey into broadcast that you can apply to your life, your ventures, and your personal development. This doesn’t require any fancy gear. It does require a leap of faith on your part because once you go down the road of media; it can change your life.

1. Perceived Expertise

When you go to a doctor, you expect their knowledge will guide them to a solution to your problems. When you have a show, you become your listeners’ doctor. For all the multiple thousands, maybe millions, of YouTube channels, podcasts, and user-created content in the world, each person that gets behind a mic takes a position on their passion, their opinions, and their themes.

They challenge the status quo for the benefit of their listeners in hopes to entertain and educate. With consistency on your side, those fans place you on a platform and give you permission to influence them.

2. Global Acknowledgement

One of the benefits to increasing confidence is when you receive thank you notes from people you may never meet. The feeling of enriching someone’s life from halfway around the globe, provides validation you’re enhancing someone else’s life with your wisdom and your wit.

The very first time I was told I was making a difference in someone’s life in a country other than my own, I felt like I caused massive impact that transcends my circle of influence. When you experience just how much you can cause impact and it comes back to you, it’ll change your worldview.

“Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining – it bores everybody else, does you no good, and doesn’t solve any problems.” – Zig Ziglar

3. Backed By Numbers

One of the most exciting ways to measure success is to quantify your growth. It’s not enough to just broadcast. Having subscribers and downloads helps to know, numerically, how well you’re doing. Word of caution. This can be a way to set yourself up for distress because of number envy but if you understand what the numbers mean; you can control the narrative of the numbers.

The major number that makes most people smile is 10,000. I’d advise it to be 1. Here’s why. As you grow in your industry, so does your reach. If you learned that the one person that subscribed totally changed for the better because of you, wouldn’t that be worth the effort?

4. Effective Communication

While it’s not talked about much, having a show is documentation. You create a dynamic account of your life, your industry, and the pulse on what’s important simply by having a show. When you find a channel to improve your communication skills, you demand attention and people will listen to you. You become more trusted as a leader and people will follow you once they believe you can lead them to their wants and needs.

“To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.” – Tony Robbins

These insights have helped many people become leaders and, ultimately, move others to their best selves. It’s worked for me and I hope it works for you. At the end of the day, it’s all about showing up and showing out.

Have you ever thought about having a radio show? If so, what would you talk about? Let us below!

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5 Essential Skills to Drive Success in Every Niche

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There are many people who don’t have the courage to launch a business in a niche as they think they don’t have the right skills and experience to obtain success. While there are specific skills which determine the success in every niche, there are also some general skills which ensure success in any business you would try.

Below are 5 essential skills you need to drive success in every aspect of your life:

1. Ambition

When you launch a new business, you need to be prepared for difficult moments such as fighting the competition and winning your target audience. Moreover, if you follow some successful entrepreneurs, you should keep in mind that they also faced difficulties and continue to experience them. So, how does a successful entrepreneur get over all the difficulties?

The essential skill you need to possess is called ambition. Set small and clear milestones in your development plan and use your ambition to go over each difficulty and finalize what you had in your mind. It doesn’t matter how hard the path is going to be. Visualize your target and put in all the efforts to achieve it. Staying organized and scheduling each step to get things done are some of the techniques you can use to achieve success.

2. Listen to those around you

While listening to your instincts is necessary if you want to be a successful entrepreneur, this is not enough. As your business develops, you will have an entire team to manage and lead to success. Therefore, you cannot be a successful leader and have success in every niche unless you learn how to listen to the people around you.

You should listen to your employees and discover what they are expecting from you. This is the way to follow if you want to keep your team motivated and help them give the best of themselves.

On the other hand, you will need to listen to your customers to improve your products and services and provide excellent customer support. By listening carefully to the voice of your customers, you will be able to stand out of the competition and ensure their loyalty towards your brand.

“We see our customers as invited guests to a party, and we are the hosts. It’s our job every day to make every important aspect of the customer experience a little bit better.” – Jeff Bezos

3. Courage

When you decided to become an entrepreneur and build your own business, it means you are a courageous person. Courage will help you harness the power of creativity. Don’t be afraid to take risks if you feel a specific action will bring more success to your business.

Apart from doing intensive research on your ideas and developing the exact steps you are going to follow, you will need the courage to implement them. Not all the ideas will turn out to be successful.

Regardless, you will have something to learn from each success or mistake and this will help you move your business even further. When you have the courage to follow a path which is not very familiar to you, this is going to be the moment when you will widen your horizons and exceed your limits to achieve success.

4. Creativity and imagination

If you already implemented your idea and you see that it works, you most probably think that you don’t need to change anything to achieve more success. You need to keep in mind that customers’ preferences change and your competition is waiting for your mistakes to “steal” your clients.

Therefore, you need to use your creativity and imagination to improve your products and services to meet your customers’ expectations. What is more, creativity can also mean that you are open to talk to new people and use their experience to improve something in your business.

“Get closer than ever to your customers. So close that you tell them what they need well before they realize it themselves.” – Steve Jobs

5. Continuous learning

If you want to drive success in every niche you will need to show a willingness to learn. You need to stay updated with what happens in your niche and what your customers expect from you.

Education is not only something for school. It is a lifelong process, and you should be open to seek knowledge and improve your skills with every opportunity. An efficient trick is to stay close to people who are already successful in your industry, ask their opinions on various subjects and learn from their experience.

The above five essential skills will help you build a successful business in every niche. A true leader is ambitious, knows to listen to the people around him, and is always open to learning from others.

No matter the size of your business, you will need to be creative and use your imagination to improve your products and services. These skills will help any leader develop new skills, stand out of the crowd, and strengthen his position on the market.

What skill do you think is most important to be successful in life? Let us know below!

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