Why People Don’t Understand Success And Drop Out Of Life

Why People Don’t Understand Success And Drop Out Of Life

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It’s so easy to get stuck on the hamster wheel of life and never get anywhere near being successful. Until you start viewing success as a fundamental part of your life, you will continue to be blinded by failure.

Success is not hard to grasp when you take the time to understand what those who have it do to attract success in their life. Promise me you won’t drop out from life and at least spend a few minutes to understand what you need to be successful.

Below are the 9 things people don’t understand about success:

 

1. It takes over your life

When you have carved out a path for success, it takes over your life. There is nothing else in the world you want to do, and you shoot distractions down with sniper rifle precision. If success is not taking over your life, then you haven’t discovered what your dream is just yet.

For me, now that I have discovered what success is, I won’t let anything get in my way. No person, no business, no roadblock, and no amount of failure. I will spend morning, noon, and night trying to find ways to inspire the world through entrepreneurship and personal development.

The path to success fills your mind with nothing but thoughts of what it’s going to be like when you achieve your dream. Having said that, you have to learn to enjoy the journey in the meantime otherwise you may never feel successful.

 

2. You’ll learn more about success through failure

Stop being afraid of failure. Failure is the best thing that can happen to you, and if you don’t understand it, then you’re screwed. Successful people are best friends with their failure, and they embrace what they can learn from it.

entrepreneur-failThere is no failure really, only lessons to be learned. If all you ever have is success then you’re kidding yourself; you’re not really successful, and you’re just pretending you are. Your mind can only be tricked by something you don’t believe in for so long.

Eventually, your mind will reveal you as a fraud, and you will be left holding a dream that means nothing to you and makes you feel lifeless.

 

3. Move on from failure quickly

When failure happens – and it will – teach yourself to move on quickly and not stay on a downward spiral. Failure can keep you pinned to the ground for a long time if you let it. As you encounter failure, acknowledge it and then divert your attention back to your dream.

“The better you get at shifting your attention away from negative experiences in your life, the quicker you will reach success”

 

4. Stop procrastinating

The fastest way to drop out of life is to procrastinate. The most precious resource you have is time, and if you waste it, no amount of money can bring it back. Forget about the shopping mall; the shops are not going anywhere.

They will always be there to sell you things you don’t need that take you away from gratitude and make you feel like you need more when you don’t. The one thing that is standing between you and your success is action. Take action consistently and eventually, something will stick.

The amount of people I meet that have an excuse for everything in their life and business blows my mind.

“Excuses kill your success if you allow your mind to create them. Use your excuse making creativity to do something remarkable in the world instead”

 

5. Sell and sell hard

its_about_sellingThe point that everyone misses except sales people is this; we’re all sales people whether we like it or not. To be successful, you have to be able to sell ideas and dreams to other people. Stop ignoring this fact and concentrate on implementing it into your life.

Whenever you get the chance to sell, do it, and do it as hard as you can. Put all of your passion and body behind the pitch and don’t worry about the outcome. The more you sell, the better you will get at it.

We all sucked at selling initially until we mastered our minds ability to deliver through our limitless amounts of energy. Creating positive energy through sales is what attracts everything to you that will make you successful.

 

6. Dream big

It frustrates me how small our dreams have become. Why can’t you achieve worldwide success? Tell me. I believe you can if your dream and vision are big enough. Think of the craziest dream you can, and then start work on it today. Block out the noise of people’s opinions and focus on the belief you have about your ability to achieve it.Dream Big Gym Workout

Small dreams will get you nowhere and make you mediocre. By being mediocre, you automatically disqualify yourself from being successful. I want to be a worldwide game changer and inspire the world through personal development and entrepreneurship.

I want to have a best-selling book and spend every day I have hanging around world leaders. I want to build a team of people who are obsessed with helping others. All of this is possible because I have wrapped these achievements in a big dream. Even if I don’t achieve each mini goal it doesn’t matter because by default, I will at least get a few of them which is better than getting none.

 

7. Add value no matter what

Standing around waiting for the world to give you something will not make you successful. You must become obsessed with adding value in everything you do. Get better at adding value as much as you can.

The greater the value is that you can add to people’s lives, the more value you get towards your dream. There are too many people waiting to receive handouts. Don’t be one of them and become a master at adding value in some useful form.

 

8. Stop being scared

I have bad news for you. Somewhere in the world right now as you are reading this, there is something horrible happening. A murder is being committed, a war is being started, and someone is losing a loved one.

You can’t stop these horrible things from happening, as they are part of our human existence. What you can do is stop being scared and not let fear take over your life. Channel the energy you put into your fear towards carving out your own path to success.

As long as you are scared, it’s unlikely you will take the calculated risks needed to get what you want. We all get scared. Those of us who can be scared and then can quickly change our physiology into confidence, are the ones who achieve unstoppable success.

 

9. Try 1000 things

Get good at trying 1000 different things until you find what works. I have tried everything from djing, to sport, to business, and failed a hundred different ways. The only way I found success was when I became relentless at trying everything.

Eventually, if you trial enough opportunities, you will find the one or two that form the basis of your dream. As you pursue these few activities, you will need to try many different ways to reach your goal. It’s not a matter of skill but a matter of trying lots of strategies to succeed.

Too many people don’t try enough paths in life and then wonder why they fail. There is always a solution to every problem as long as you get good at being prepared to keep having a go and changing your approach.

What are you going to do to be successful? Let me know on my website timdenning.net or my Facebook.
Tim Denning is a former entrepreneur turned intrapreneur, working daily with fast-moving tech companies. He is passionate about what makes startups successful and is a thought leader/ game changer via the use of social media. Tim uses personal development and success as a platform for greatness. You can connect with Tim through his website www.timdenning.net or through his Facebook and Twitter.

11 COMMENTS

  1. The power of the words used in your first point confirmed that I was reading an original Tim Denning article! You always provide the right article at the right time. It’s amazing how that happens. I’m in the experimentation phase of my new adventure which means that failure is inevitable but I’m so grateful for the feedback that will allow me to be 10X better than the person I was yesterday. Failure is a disguised opportunity that most people don’t take advantage of. Thanks for sharing your wonderful insights!

    • Thanks Charlene for the very nice comment. It’s great to see you increasing your failure rate so that you can become more successful. Keep me updated with your progress.

  2. Love the Try 1000 Things approach. This is a great perspective. To your other points, so many are scared to fail to the point where they don’t even try anymore. Appreciate the great insight.

    • Bryan we all suffer from fear of what might happen. What I encourage people to do is challenge that fear and understand the pain that will occur if you don’t stop being afraid. Thanks for your feedback!

  3. Beautiful morning and beautiful food for my mind in the form of your article 🙂 Felt a little bit out of my theme but you got me back! It’s funny when sometimes you just feel unsettled even though everything seems to be working fine yet still you are not quite there yet and some little detail can get you high in no time. I’m glad you posted your article just in the right moment for me. Happiness 😀

    I like your view on failure as I started to dig into this topic very deep. I’m working on the mindset that failure is the only way to success and that you most likely will fail your path forward, in a positive, learning, full of experience way! I also begin to understand the concept we cannot destroy the energy but we can transform it. We can channel it whatever it works for us, that’s what alchemists do, right?

    I also adore your Dream Big statement, and wholeheartedly agree on that! Aim ridiculously high, set up dreams that will inspire you and wake up at night with pulsing heart and smile on your face. I love it and was dreaming since my early childhood. Kinda forgot that habit since then but now I am getting back at it, with pleasure should I add!

    Your last point on trying 1000 things makes me think. How can we possibly discover what our purpose is if don’t try different things instead of doing one routine over and over again? It’s wonderful how easy this idea is yet it is not so common. I will try it out, as I was stuck with sales for years, and even though, we always sell something to someone, as you mentioned above, I realized it is highly important to sell things/ideas/products only when you believe they will do good for others and bring high value to them (yep, another point of yours, spot on).

    I find it very healthy to change your environment, daily routine and your thing you do daily so you never get tired or boring and so you can motivate not only yourself but others on your amazing journey 🙂

    I’m going to nature again today, just about to pack my things after finishing reply and enjoy the life. Was visiting my grandmother last weekend, spent time outside the city, and enjoyed it so very much! So will do the same today, as mountains are calling and I should go haha.

    Have a wonderful weekend, Tim, thank you so very much for the top read and my motivation, was needed it! Stay well and healthy, much love and appreciation, my friend!

    • Toño you got the message perfectly. There is no success without failure period. You don’t just stumble upon success because you are lucky. You find success by becoming more of who you are and developing every single day. You’re right when you say your dreams should wake you up. You must be so in love with your dream that it becomes part of you and for this to happen it has to be gigantic.

      The other advice I have for you Toño is that if you are going to sell anything, it must be not only something you believe in, but something you are passionate about. If you don’t link your sales ability to your passion then people won’t be influenced to buy from you and they will stick with the old way of doing things.

      Speak soon Toño

  4. There is one thing that you are right about, if you want more success in your life, you have to become obsessed with it. It has to be a part of your life. Not just a one time thing, but an everyday dream that you grasp like your last breathe. A lot of people don’t have the mindset to become successful but these tips can sure help someone achieve that right kind of mindset.

    • Good comment, Lawrence, I like it! Obsession with success should follow all day long, through all your life. You have to literally breathe and live it till the very end. And you should enjoy it as well, so if you won’t get what you wanted at least you had big fun!

      Thank you.

    • Lawrence thanks for sharing your wisdom. You are spot on when you say that focusing on success is crucial. What you focus on is what will become present in your life. Success takes dedication and hard work to achieve and you need to want it for the right reasons. It all starts with mindset.

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