How To Write From The Heart: You’ve Got The Words To Change...

How To Write From The Heart: You’ve Got The Words To Change A Nation

by -
How To Write From The Heart

Writing is one of the best ways to connect with other people and become influential. The art of writing will always be timeless no matter how many people think that bite-sized content will take over – it won’t. It’s easy just to write but writing from the heart is very different.

My writing career started when I was in high school, and my teachers kept telling me I was a brilliant writer. I never believed them and still don’t believe I am very good at it. With that aside, I chose to keep writing because people are inspired by my words and it’s a medium that has worked thus far.

In the future, I will be doing more videos and public speaking, but writing will always be there. Even with videos and public speaking you are still required to write the content so the art of putting words together in a meaningful way is a valuable skill.

Timeless Book Written From The HeartAs the years went on I stopped writing for a long time but I still was knocking out convincing emails each day, so I never actually gave up. Then, a few years back I began blogging, and that’s when I taught myself how to write from the heart.

The second part of the title for this article comes out of a song. The phrase “You’ve got the words to change a nation,” is one of the mantras I live my life by. Words truly do have the power to change a nation, and you should use them for good. You should use words in everything you do to inspire others and add value to people’s lives. You should use words to live your purpose.

Even if you have no aspiration for blogging or social media, writing is still important because a habit that will help you in life is journaling. The habit of writing in a journal is followed by many of the greats such as Oprah and Tony Robbins. Either way, learning to write from the heart is a must.

So, below are my top 8 tips on how you too can write from the heart and change your nation at the same time:


1. Write when you’re full of emotion

The easiest way to write from the heart is when you’re having a day or period of time when you are full of emotion. For me, this can either be a really sad state, or a point in time when I am experiencing the phenomena known as “flow.”

In deep emotional states, words flow out of you and are naturally tainted with emotion from your heart. Writing can be a great way to release negative emotions or multiply positive emotions. In these writing states, you should aim to eliminate perfection and not worry about spelling or what you’re writing.

The key for me has been to just let the words flow out of me and then go back and edit them later – that’s how you capture raw emotion. The rawer the emotion is in your writing; the more heartfelt the words on the page will be to your reader. Practice this enough and you will have a large audience.

It’s not always possible to be near a suitable space to write like your office. What I do as a simple hack is to write down phrases or ideas when I am experiencing these particular emotional states. Ideally, you want to finish the writing while you’re still in the state; otherwise, I have found that when you come back to it later, the emotion is gone from the topic you were writing about.


2. Forget about how many shares you get

This point is particularly relevant in the age of social media that we are now in. The temptation (I have it too) is to write something, post it online, and then actually give a damn about how many people share your post.

This habitual way of approaching your writing will cause you all sorts of problems, and it will guarantee you that you don’t write from the heart.

“Other people can’t determine your success; you must determine it yourself and your writing’s purpose should be to serve others”

There are so many things that effect how many shares a written post will get on the various social media platforms such as time of day, the country the article is focused towards, the current topics in the news, who reads it, and finally, the platforms you post it on – forget about the number of shares!


3. Concentrate on passion filled topics

To write from the heart requires you to write about something you’re passionate about. Your heart, your passion, and your emotions are very closely linked to each other. For me, I find writing about entrepreneurship and personal development is the best way for me to write from the heart.

The reason these two fields help me write from the heart is because they are deeply personal in their own individual ways. Entrepreneurship translates for me to family, success, money won and money lost, pain, pleasure, etc.

Personal development translates for me to mean; a tool that turned my life around, my appreciation for Tony Robbins, the device that transformed me in business, my passion, my network of friends, and finally, me being on Addicted2Success with all of you. See writing from the heart and using your passion go much deeper than you think. For me, they go as deep as the depths of the ocean.


4. Crank up the vulnerability

If you want to not only write from the heart but change your nation at the same time then, your writing needs to be 100% vulnerable. Why? The reason is because so much of the world is based on hype and things that are not real. When you are vulnerable, you naturally write from the heart.

Being vulnerable in writing and in life is not very common. People listen when you’re vulnerable, and you speak what you believe to be the truth. Vulnerability can create immense power, and it’s that power that you can use to change your nation.

I have demonstrated this one quite a few times on our site when I have spoken about my health issues, my mortality, the anxiety I used to suffer, and my imperfections as illustrated by others. Each time I am vulnerable I am writing from the heart with the goal of helping others. I would love you to try this approach in your own life and watch the success come flooding in like a tidal wave.


5. Include inspiration as much as possible

When you endeavor to include inspiration in some form in your writing, you automatically write from the heart. The way you go even further is you include action points after the inspirational points in your writing.

The reason for this is that the impact people will get from your inspirational points will not be reached to the maximum if you don’t write in some action points. Inspiration is meaningless without action that follows. Inspiration almost always leads to positive change, and I think that’s what everyone should aim for.

“In the end, what will cause your writing to change a nation will be how much you can inspire and motivate everyone that reads your message” – Tim Denning


6. Be you

You will never write from the heart if you don’t be you. Being you involves you not writing in a way that makes your brain think about how others will perceive your words. Everyone is going to get a different meaning from your words so just concentrate on pouring in emotion and being you.

The easiest way I find to be me in my writing is to include some personal stories here and there, which highlight my message in a way that only I can do. Writing styles, topics, blogs and content can easily be copied, but copying how you do you is impossible, so that’s your best chance at writing from the heart.


7. Give everything you have

To be successful at writing from the heart, it’s crucial to give everything you have in your writing. Then, when you think you have given everything, reach down and try and give some more. Just like in life, the more you give, the more success you will achieve.

The way I give everything is that I take every bit of advice and learning that I get from my daily life, and chunk it down for you into simple bite-sized points. I ensure I do this regularly and make the writing as compelling as I can so you can get the benefits of the lessons I am sharing.

All of us can be a New York Times best Selling Author if we give everything we have and write from the heart.


8. Get into a high energy writing state

The final point to writing from the heart is to make sure your mind is in the right state. When you’re burnt out or tired, it’s hard to reach down and write from the heart. Any form of proper writing requires energy and so what I recommend is to inspire yourself before any block of writing.

The way I change my state before I begin to write is firstly by having a shower. Showers help clear my mind and relax me. I then do ten mins of exercise to get the blood moving (trampolines work best for me). The next step is to make a nice herbal tea (caffeine free tea) and sit down for 30 minutes and read a personal development book – I’m currently reading “The Law Of Success.”

The last step to getting into a high-energy writing state is to watch a motivational YouTube video. I find just typing the word motivation into YouTube gives the best results.


***Final Thought***

For those that want to take writing from the heart or even living from the heart further, here is an exercise I learned from Tony Robbins recently:

Step One – Turn on some emotional classical music from YouTube
Step Two – Put one hand on your heart and close your eyes
Step Three – For two minutes, think of three things you are grateful for

This exercise will help you connect with your heart and will bring all sorts of emotions out. It’s a great way to prepare for writing something that has the power to change a nation.

Are you able to write from the heart? Do you think words can change a nation? Let me know in the comments section below or on my website or my Facebook.
Tim Denning is a former entrepreneur turned intrapreneur, working daily with fast-moving tech companies. He is passionate about what makes startups successful and is a thought leader/ game changer via the use of social media. Tim uses personal development and success as a platform for greatness. You can connect with Tim through his website or through his Facebook and Twitter.


  1. Thanks so much for writing this article, Tim. I can relate to all eight points, especially writing from your emotion and being vulnerable. I have a difficult time writing from emotion despite the fact I always encourage others to do so. Perhaps it’s time for me to heed my own advice.

    I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and look forward to reading more of your work. Have an awesome day.

    • Thanks for the kind words Bill. Writing from a place of emotion can be hard but hopefully my tips have shown you how I do it. Best of luck with your work and stay in touch!

  2. The point I enjoyed the most was ‘getting into the right state’.

    I totally agree that if your head isn’t right, it’s just not going to work.

    Here is what I do to get my head in the place it needs to be to write emotionally.

    1. Listen to Eckhart Tolle. His meditative talks can be found on youtube or his website I find that he always clams me down and puts the best perspective on things.

    2. Do some exercise whilst listening to motivational speeches on youtube. This pumps me up tremendously whilst I make physiological changes to my body. I tend to work out with gymnastics rings whilst these guys shout at me “GET UP, WAKE UP, GIVE IT YOUR ALL”.

    3. Listen to beautiful music. I often type beautiful soundtracks into youtube and let its flow in the background.

    Thanks for a top article Tim 🙂

    • Thanks so much for the tips Angelo. I will have to go and listen to some of Eckhart’s work as I have never listened to his stuff before. I will also try your YouTube tips. Appreciate the practical advice.

  3. Beautiful article, Tim. Enjoying it while reading and replying to you. I also loved to use writing skills at school, as well as literature and languages (Russian & English) and teachers were pleased with me. My writing career, so to speak, started with a girl. I found a fiction story she published in the magazine and sent her an email. We started our communication via email and soon met in person. That was my first love story haha. I have been written countless amount of emails, we were both obsessed with the idea. It was kind of silly and perhaps childish, but we were kids and that’s how I’ve got my writing practice 🙂

    I like that you mentioned ‘flow’ phenomena. I actually use it as much as possible and always reply to you when I’m in it. With your full description of it I will take more notes and use this hack as well, it seems like a very good one. I used to collect quotes from famous people and from books I’ve read. Similar thing that helps you memorize and give you a good habit.

    I also like this sentence so much: ‘Writing can be a great way to release negative emotions or multiply positive emotions.’ It appears that writing can be a cure and your best doctor in so many cases, it will transform your negative energy and you will be like alchemist who turns dirt into gold, which is simply magical.

    And you know what? I am going to write article for my sister’s website which is about vegan food recipes and possibly in the future about vegan lifestyle in general. Your tips are wonderful and I feel you have been writing them being in ‘flow’. Also, superb advice from Tony Robbins, gonna use it for inspiration and gratitude! And I like your own preparation, I think I will try it as well 😉

    Much love for this article, my friend, hugely appreacite your knowledge and always lookin’ and waitin’ for more. Thank you Tim!

    ps: You can read about the wizards who used words to cast a spell; well it still works today, you just have to charge your words with passion, emotions and speak from the heart – there goes modern day magic!

    • Toño thank you so much! I think we have all had a love story or two that started out via email, or in my case, a handwritten note which was the fashion when I was in primary school….lol. The state of flow is very interesting and I have spent a lot of time trying to understand it as best as I can. It’s one of the most powerful headspaces to write from.

      Writing down quotes is a good way to summarize certain parts of a book. I have a similar practice where I highlight good quotes in my kindle as I read a book. Often these quotes will then get used in articles later on. One of the best things I found with blogging is that it helps to reinforce the same lessons I’m teaching. Every time I include a quote, that quote then goes one level deeper into my own brain. Then, when I face a difficult challenge, I have the strategies already buried inside of me so I have no excuse not to be positive.

      Best of luck my friend with writing for your sisters vegan website!

  4. Awesome post. I really like the idea of getting in touch with your emotions before you write and then just let it rip. Being vulnerable is huge and also can be be very intimidating.

    You really have to be comfortable with your faults to through them out their on the internet. Many people are afraid to show their imperfections or to put their true-self out there for fear of being ridiculed or judged. However the more authentic you are the more compassion you receive.

    Thanks for sharing Tim

Leave a Reply